Should I Go, Should I Stay? Vote Now!  

fuckmeharder1987 30F
31 posts
4/29/2006 12:59 am

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5/6/2006 3:18 am

Should I Go, Should I Stay? Vote Now!

I was thinking of leaving this site, in search of another, or maybe just looking for a hookup another way because my responses have not been so great lately. I find guys who wanna meet up and then all of a sudden, they stop answering the phone or I find out something about them that I don't like. Just when I think that my luck is changing for the better - it suddenly falls through. So now I wanna hear from you all!

What should I do? Should I leave the site? Should I stay and make some profile changes? If so, what changes should I make? Any and all feedback would be great. Thanks AdultFriendFinder members!

rm_gandalfirl 48M

4/29/2006 1:57 am

Hi just stumbled across your blog. To be honest at your age I was out amoung my peers hooking up with them. I am assuming you are in college, if so thats the best place to try and find someone. You should probably use internet sites like this as a back up.

I use here because most of my peers/social circle are now married with kids so I find this handy.

Anyway good luck and I hope you get sorted soon

DukeAbbaddon 43M
280 posts
4/29/2006 5:04 am

well ... i know you must me nice but get a nice camra for a cleaner picture prahaps with a nice eye mask but a good smile ?

stay ! after all just drop your thoughts on your blog and relax !

being nice could get you a nice man too...

you must be nice and if your rock or indy your style could win you freands i think

love me , im always there if you would like to chat

rm_Shortdogg65 52M
672 posts
4/29/2006 5:47 am

At your age I was fresh out of high school and still looking for some direction in my life. Hooking up wasn't exactly my highest priority. I'm not saying you shouldn't be looking. Everybodys sex drive is different. Just remember, you have your whole adult life ahead of you. Good luck. Shortdogg

TrueTxGtlman 54M

4/29/2006 5:53 pm

Not sure you are looking for what you want in the right place. But give it time and you will find what you are looking for. There is about 8000 men to every 1 woman so patience is a must here.


blackandhanging 32M
6 posts
4/29/2006 8:32 pm

dont go just holla at me at and daddy will make it good again

imLadyBambi 59M/51F

5/1/2006 3:42 am

Dear FM Harder,

"Mr. Bambi" here... In real estate, they say the key is location, location, location. This same principal (demographics) also applies to AdultFriendFinder. Within the AdultFriendFinder population, your age puts you at a loss right from the start - especially if you are well educated (and you appear to be just that based on your profile). Some guys within your age group will be intimidated by your desire for a man who basically knows his way around the bedroom. Again, a demographic loss. As unfortunate as it is, social/racial factors also come in to play (some men won't cross the racial barrier, others might not meet your educational/social standards). Finally, and this is minor, your profile has a slight "edge" to it because it might be too intimidating for men your age.

My suggestion: stay with AdultFriendFinder, broaden the demographics of your profile, take some of the edge off (use this after the initial contact). (Remember, in sales, the price of the item being marketed is normally not discussed until you have a captive audience. With regard to AdultFriendFinder, your desire for a very capable man can come later).

Best of luck

75231michael 41M

5/5/2006 6:00 am

wow im in the same bout in regards to staying or leaving. just want to fined some cool dallas women and all the replies i get they end up being bots??? i figer I'm going to give this thing a month and thin see.

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