Talk, Talk, Talk....Sigh!  

frogger1995 40F
4342 posts
10/4/2005 4:36 pm

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Talk, Talk, Talk....Sigh!

This morning after going through a litany of messages asking me if I would “like to chat sometime” I received the following:

I am not going to beat around the bush.. I would love to have sex with you anytime. Interested in meeting??

As crazy as it sounds, I actually found this message a refreshing break from the norm. My profile states that I am NOT into chatting or playing e-mail buddies with someone (though I do make exceptions for troops in Iraq). I find internet sex to be an extremely poor substitute for the real thing, and I find any other type of internet communication to be a perfect waste of time. Plus you have to deal with all the hassles of trying to get it on online:

Waiting ages for someone to response

Being unable to figure out someone's mood, even with the ridiculous number of smiley faces available

Dealing with individual idiosyncrasies such as typing each sentence in a new message or using confusing fonts and colors

Figuring out the plethora of acronyms

Getting irked at the abuse of "lol" (which I personally hate) or "ur"or smiley faces (ugggh!)

Frankly I am at a loss as to why men, who by all accounts are far more physical beings than women, would be into that as well. Are you simply trying to ease into eventual sex? Listen up fellas, this is a Sex and Swingers site. I am here for just that...don't waste my time if you are all chat and no action.

Things to be Happy About:
Silver Jewelry
Sexy Shoes
Remembering Your First Car

rm_troutnuke 37M
1 post
10/4/2005 8:45 pm

She's right, y'know.

Efilnikufecin69 48M

10/4/2005 9:22 pm

What fonts? What colors?Hmmmm.

Just kiddin' Kermit. Respect. If you by chance are underway in Germany sometime, I will show you that I can do more than just write.

Sounds almost like a KD mail to me, but I am trying to kick that gene.

rm_dragonspyke 35M

10/4/2005 9:54 pm

You are right frogger, I'm in it for the meetup and action, not for typoing one handed. Hell, if you ever gave me the chance to let me do you, then hey, lets get down to it. Why talk about it when you can do it.

digdug41 50M

10/4/2005 10:02 pm

hey if I were closer I would most definately be trying to stroke you but thats not the case so I just live vicariously through your blogs wishin I was the guy givng it to you is that honest enough for ya

roaming the cyber streets of blogland

closetfreaks1008 39M/39F
24 posts
10/4/2005 11:50 pm

finally someone who speaks the truth .Hell yeh !!!

1968horn 49M

10/5/2005 3:12 am

Hey frogger, keep hopping.....what a great, concise attitude! Wish I was closer.....distance wise!

beewulf9 39M

10/5/2005 7:48 am

I hope you continue to recieve the honest emails, and have fun here and in real life.

phangasm2003 107M

10/5/2005 11:59 am

Yeah, but then there's all the women out there who get offended if you suggest meeting without the appropriate mating dance. Here's what works for me, if I'm not coming on strong enough, a good dope slap works wonders. i.e.
me> wanna chat?
you> no, I wanna fuck.
That sort of thing goes a real long way to changing my attitude.

Greenguy96 44M

10/5/2005 3:59 pm

What is right for one isn't right for all. I think that the small talk it just there to lead to sex. Use guys are just tring to sound cute to get you attention. If this guy has what you want the "GO FOR IT"

rm_bellako2005 42M
18 posts
10/5/2005 6:54 pm

that's right frogger that's what this site is for. culeo perreo bellakeo I WISH I LIVE IN HOUSTON!!!!!!!!

howdy_all 46M

10/5/2005 8:06 pm might be the first who I have seen who actually realizes what this site is for. Unfortunately from a previous blog, you have ruled out married men, but if you ever change your mind...please look me up!

MissAnnThrope 57F
11488 posts
10/5/2005 8:48 pm

I've noticed, there are plenty of men who get you to talk to them, then, instead of meeting, they want either cyber or phone sex. My profile says I don't do either of those. When I tell them that, these guys who were dying to meet suddenly disappear. Yet they all complain about women who don't want to meet... uh-huh.

The overuse of lol gets to me too. Most people don't even know it means "laughing out loud." As a result you get people saing lolololol. I want to smack all of those people around, as I recite the proper use of acronyms.

rm_iceylikr 48M

10/6/2005 5:39 am

Awesome!!!!!!!! I couldn't have said it better.
When I first got on this site i was excited, but its all talk and NO ACTION!! They put up this front and then don't back it up. I'm not into games and chatting I'm here for some GREAT SEX! So far I haven't even gotten a phone # or coffee invitation. What the hell are you women here for you bunch of imposters!!!!!!!!!!!!! Step up to the plate or get out of the game.

frogger1995 40F

10/6/2005 5:47 am

I appreciate all the men who live far away and simply want a connection...but I have too little time on my hands for that. Hope you find what you need in your part of the world...but if you ever make it to Houston....

phangasm2003: I understand that most women might be turned off by what I suggest..If a man desperately feels the need to chat, the way I like it is when they offer to talk on the phone or chat then meet up and see what happens.

MissAnnThrope: Yes, you would be surprised at the number of men on this site who are afraid to actually "go through with it." It isn't just the women who are fakes here.

OK I have to throw an APPROPRIATE lol here for your last line...I really did laugh out loud.

rm_slim_jim997 47M

10/6/2005 10:18 am

Well said Frogger,

I try to make it plain and simple (read my profile). I don't even get offended when certain people want to get up on a soap box and talk down to me. iggy fixes that. haha! As for meeting and having a great sexual time... quote "Hope you find what you need in your part of the world...but if you ever make it to Houston.... " Well, I just happen to be in Houston; and, you are one beautiful woman. Love to meet you, hellraiser.

rockwriter58 58M
1389 posts
10/8/2005 9:28 pm

I have to agree with this great critique on cybersex and some of the silliness that passes for internet communication. Or is it sloppiness?

But as Efilnikufecin69 said so much better: some of us just like seeing a variety of colors.

Perhaps it is that male need for visual stimulation.


puffangelhotmail 37M
1 post
10/18/2005 12:17 am

Love the add and profile
Pics of you are even better..
love to hear from you..

singlequietone 68M
232 posts
11/21/2005 9:51 pm

Hi Frogger,
I can't think of anything I would rather do than have YOU want to fuck me. I already want to fuck you, every single day, day in and day out. I also want to suck on those gorgeous tits of yours and eat you out until you scream for mercy. I'd love every minute of it, believe me.

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