Speaking of Masturbation  

frogger1995 40F
4342 posts
10/9/2005 7:48 am

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Speaking of Masturbation

Adult Friends of mine always seem to call at the most inopportune times. For example, a couple of nights ago I was rudely interrupted during the most important point of a fantastic session of masturbation by the ringing of my phone. Although I was happily surprised to find that it was Mr. Punish from Los Angeles (who certainly took his time calling me) I had to inform him that he had just ruined my good time.

We began talking about masturbation at that point. He asked me if I, or women in general, ever masturbate to anything. It is widely accepted that men use certain visual stimulation in order to get off (i.e. Playboy, Penthouse, Hustler, the Underwear section of the Sears Catalog). But do women?

I don’t use external stimulation. Although, I must admit that there are certain things that get me off quicker. Last night I was watching clips of women masturbating and squirting, just because someone had mentioned it in one of my posts. That certainly got me in the mood and when I masturbated to it, it took me half as long to cum.

I also like to imagine that at least one individual is watching me. My two favorites are imagining a man’s face up close and personal down there as I am stimulating myself. Being that exposed up close is thrilling. My other favorite is imagining I am doing it in front of either an audience (about 20-50 people) or on camera.

I am not sure how either of the two would play out in real life. I think there would be too much pressure to perform. But imagining it is nice.

Speaking of which….I think I need to go wash my dishes again

P.S. I honestly think I have an addiction here

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drnick20054 29M

10/9/2005 9:51 am

i believe masterbation is truly addictive

DorianVampire 40M
20 posts
10/9/2005 9:54 am

Just a comment as to the being watched in the act fantasy. My ex was a HUGE fan of this. She would mention it quite often, even in the bedroom. She would go on and on about how exciting she thought it would be. HOWEVER, for as much as she talked about it she would never once realize it with me. If I even brought it up she would go red in the face and try desperately to change the subject. I thought it was really cute but occasionally frustrating.

I guess my point is after looking over some of your posts this seems to be a fantasy shared by only "confident" women. Something in the having an audiance, or controling there attention with the mear expression of themselves. Not sure. She, like yourself, is extremely frank and open about her wants, needs, etc.

Would be interested in your take on this...


P.s. my compliments on the blog, real attention grabber.

tamethytension 55M
2320 posts
10/9/2005 11:25 am

In my early teens, the Sears catalogue did nicely. A little later it was my Dad's Playboy ... and pretty much through college. But after my first few experiences with women, I have not had a need for visual stimulation. I only saw my first porn (since those glances of Playboy) last year when a woman wanted me to watch some anal sex with her ... it did nothing for me. In my mind, I run through a rolodex of lovers, generally fixating on 1 or 2 that were/are especially adept at cock-cucking. Has me coming inside 5 minutes every time.



8 posts
10/9/2005 11:55 am

Masturbation is the shit!!!.....Frogger love your blogs!!!...they make me want to go and "wash the dishes" too!!...btw I am availabe to fullfill your first desire....I am in Houston and could watch you do that all night!(after dinner of course)....let me know whats up......moe

peezy83 35M
2 posts
10/9/2005 12:40 pm

Interesting topic I have wondered if women use as much visual stimulation while mastubating. I always enjoy viewing your blog, usually intriguing or at least interesting blog entry might i say. Keep it up.

P.S. How beautiful is this Houston weather now...

craptoast 40M

10/9/2005 2:44 pm

I masturbate to memories, and to the imaginary future. I used to masturbate to porn, but at some point I realized the porn really had nothing to do with anything, most of time I wasn't paying attention, just using it to get started. Silly. I used to masturbate about six times a day. Now I'm down to twice a day tops, more on the weekends. Not sure why the change. Life moves on I suppose.

TheQuietGuy2005 56M
2386 posts
10/9/2005 4:03 pm

There are worse addictions to have!

the1forthenight 34M
55 posts
10/9/2005 4:22 pm

That would be one show I would enjoy! Are you up for it Frogger??

Pickyourpleasure 38M
1 post
10/9/2005 4:35 pm

At first, when I was much younger, visual stimulation was almost imperitive to get off. But now, after I grew up emotionslly and sexually, I hardly ever use any hardware for gratification. I think masterbation is 95% mental and 5% visual.

P.S. Did Mr. Navy Seal happen to mention where he got his machine?

rm_bella_ 48F
4030 posts
10/9/2005 5:38 pm

I have been washing dishes often myself...it seems as though once I start I cant stop...except I like to watch myself and imagine at the same time..something sexy about watching yourself masturbate.

Apex192 32M
2 posts
10/9/2005 6:35 pm

I know what you mean, I believe i am thoroughly addicted to masturbation, and i also like to let women watch me do it. Its really amazing.

rm_rome211 61M
26 posts
10/9/2005 10:09 pm

i'm fascinated by the whole topic of female masturbation. there is so much mystery to it. i mean, there are so many sparks happening under the skin that a guy doesn't always notice but when he does...hmmm. since there are just as many kinds of orgasms and just as many ways of triggering one, i'm totally in awe. fortunately, my gal freinds have taught me to "keep my eyes open" to the subtle little twitches any where on the body. i enjoy it when it is easy like when i'm just kissing her mouth and there are juices all over me. but not all gals are the same and i've got to explore for those spots. i can't tell you how much i take great pleasure trying all kinds of things to find those under-the-skin sparks that turn into a monstrous volcano down below...smile. ladies, keep educating us.

AlbertPrince 59M

10/10/2005 12:39 am

I don't believe masturbation is addictive - and if I could stop doing it I would prove it to you.

rm_RonDMC7 51M
2 posts
10/10/2005 1:32 am

An Arse like that only come around once in lifetime, or do they cum more than once??????? Wanna call me?????? My name is Ron and my number is 352-683-0868, call me soon!?


danteszippo 53M
4069 posts
10/10/2005 3:37 am

what a post...the thought of watching you fingering or sliding a dildo into your amazing body makes me so horny.damn. I love watching a woman do that. it's better than anything on TV.

rm_gent258 69M
486 posts
10/11/2005 10:02 am

Why don't you masturbate with your webcam on? Please let me know when so I can watch. How long does it take for you to cum?

lostnalone 33M

10/12/2005 7:23 am

You know i can honestly say i would enjoy watching my partner pleasure themselves but it seems to be one of those things that is hard to put into words other than just bluntly saying "let me watch you play with yourself." Anyone got any tips as to how to get a partner to open up to open masturbation

rm_Lnghrdrd 54M

10/17/2005 10:29 am

I definetly enjoy watching a woman masturbate. One thing I used to do with a former lover was watch her while she masterbated. She would lie on her back and right when she was starting to come, she would have me enter her but not do anything esle. It was a very erotic experience because I could feel her vaginal walls contracting as she came. Of course I did'nt last very long inside her after sh came!!..lOL.
She also liked to take me analy while she used a vibrator on herself. Again, I could do nothing but watch her in the mirror while she satisfied herself. Esentisly, she used my dick as masturbating toy!!..

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