Safe Sex  

frogger1995 40F
4342 posts
8/4/2005 3:56 pm

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Safe Sex

I recently updated my profile. It now mentions that I only practice safe sex. Specifically I mention that I use condoms in every aspect of sex including oral, at least in the beginning. I have noticed a significant decline in the number of messages I have recieved since then. This, of course, doesn't bother me as much as the idea that men on this site would be so opposed to practicing safe sex...especially if they are married.

I know what I do and don't have (nothing!) but you don't; and vice versa. Yes, I know all the excuses about how it feels better without and how difficult it is to catch something there. Here's an idea, do a google image search for "Oral Herpes" and then get back to me about the silliness of using a condom for oral. (Sorry to ruin the day of those of you who actually did do the google search)

I came to this site to have fun. And I fully intend to have fun...A LOT of fun. But I would rather do it without spending the rest of my life regreting it. If you feel the same, get in touch.

rm_VoodooGuru1 50M
2053 posts
8/4/2005 11:20 pm

For the most part, I agree with you Frogger. However, I've never used a dental dam when going down on a woman, and I don't think I would... unless she absolutely demanded it.

I've a question for you, though. When I was about 25, I dated a 37 year old woman briefly. Everytime we had sex, I would start to put the condom on and she would argue with me... things like, "Oh, come on lover, we don't need that."

As time went on, she became more insistent about this, and I gotta admit, it played no small role in my deciding to stop seeing her.

Question: Why the bloody hell would she do this? What would the benefit be for a woman?

Only thing I could come up with is she felt her biological clock ticking and wanted a baby, regardless of how I felt about it, but there are big holes in that theory. (I know, I know... I should have asked HER what her problem with safe sex was.... )

rm_gottacall 72M

8/5/2005 9:44 am

I fully agree with you. It is a great thing to now a woman you are interested in is clean and remains to be clean. Especially if you plan on being with her again.

rockwriter58 58M
1389 posts
8/5/2005 9:54 am

With your beauty and brains, a guy would have to be crazy not to make that small (and safer for all concerned) sacrifice. Good luck with the search.


XysmaHintsArras 47

8/5/2005 9:55 am

Amen. Someone who isnt afraid to say the truth. Too many STD's and only 1 life...LOL. I wish everyone would take read this..Mark

CaboWaboVHnut 57M
637 posts
8/6/2005 9:18 am

Bravo !!! You are using more common sense than a whole college full of guys even posess !!! It's an old saying, but more true today than ever: "Better Safe Than Sorry"!!! Peace !!! Cabo !!!

PinnaNatesTubby 56M
9 posts
8/20/2005 6:51 am

Frogger, you are a very sharp cookie. Frankly, I won't have sex of any kind, outside of a committed relationahip, without a condom. And if my prospective partner has alot of unprotected sex, I probably won't engage with her, even with a condom. That would be akin to wearing your seat belt and purposely driving your car into a brick wall.

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