Pictures catch attention or waste time?  

friskieNpouncin 47F
19 posts
9/9/2006 11:21 pm

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9/26/2006 11:41 am

Pictures catch attention or waste time?

Do you think seeing pictures in profiles helps to pick out people you might be physically attracted to? or Do you think seeing some of the pictures people post lead to a waste of time?
Pictures help find people I find physically appealing.
Pictures seem to be fake or misleading so mostly a waste of time.
I don't look for people I may share interests with based on pictures.

RakerCalliRough 51M
98 posts
9/10/2006 3:32 am

I feel strongly that there has to be a connection in the mind first, but of course seeing a pic that is REAL of the person you have connected with only adds to the lustful desire in your mind.
For example, seeing your pic Friskie has me very aroused...and wondering if there are any panties on under that sexy lil dress.

Maybe I can come check in person soon....


imsingleagain06 43M

9/10/2006 6:43 pm


Pictures certainly help quickly decide who you're physically attracted to and who you're not. But what they write in their profile helps determine whether there can be a deeper connection or not.

I guess it just depends on what you're looking for...

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buddhamike 107M
7006 posts
9/11/2006 12:10 pm

A picture can be stimulating, but it isn't an indicator of the quality of the sex you might enjoy with the person.

NamerNobleDeled 59M

9/15/2006 11:50 am

Friskie I enjoy your pics because they are very sensual. Not in just what they show but what they don't show. That makes me use my mind and imagination. Unlike all the crotch shots , which I find tacky, your pics are beautiful and sensual.

rm_Rick0000 52M

9/16/2006 2:23 pm

Pictures are a nice starting point as far as profiles are concerned (obviously your pics are part of the reason I'm checking out your polls and profile). However, there is a lot to be said for the persons profile...I've seen a lot of hot pics on here, only to be disinterested once I got to reading their profile. There has to be more than just a physical attraction for me...I know I'm probably in the minority on that one, but there is something to be said for being able to carry on a conversation, and having a sense of humor, etc...

rm_us4u10 47M/49F
11 posts
9/26/2006 10:51 am

Pictures that are real are helpful as the physical is always part of a relationship. It however is in reality a very small part and the physical fades quickly. If a person dosent have a good foundation to back up good looks then it cant last.Some of the most beautiful people have the worst additudes here.And some of the ugliest are the sweetest folks you could ever meet. I think it has a lot to do with how much the have bought into the garbage over the years. For example I know a girl who is just avarage and by no means a beauty queen but she has listened to guys tell her how hot she was, in order to get in her pants, for so long that she thinks she is all that and a bag of chips and I no longer associate with her because she is so snide now and snotty that it is painful to be around her. This is sad because she used to be a real sweety. she dosent look any differnt physicaly but her additude ruins her completely.

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