Be up front with your ad.  

friendlypleser69 55M
9 posts
2/2/2006 11:11 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Be up front with your ad.

It would be so nice for members to be a little honest in their ads as far as their weight, age and other factors that others deem important.
In the weight department I see a lot of members who post them selves as being a few extra pounds and turn out to be Large. Please if if you are 5 foot something and pushing 300lbs you are large! Now I know we all fudge a little with the #'s but please! Age is another place where people are very dishonest, they post photos of them selves that are 10 years old or more.
If we all were a LITTLE more honest and realistic it would save a lot of time for both parties and not cause someones feelings to be hurt and disappointed.

rm_PurryKitty2 49M/51F
9753 posts
2/2/2006 11:45 am

I was honest but know what you mean. We have met people who look NOTHING like their profile pics!

Purry {=}


saddletrampsk 55F

2/2/2006 12:40 pm

Im always up front..well the best of part of me is really "up front"..and honestly works for me..

friendlypleser69 55M

2/2/2006 2:00 pm

I know a lot of the members are honest like myself. But I just spent a lot of time emailing this one lady on here who said she had a little extra padding. Kept putting me off with a pic after I sent a bunch of mine. I guess that should have been a red flag but you know I wanted to give her the benfit of the dought. She liked my looks and what I dad to say and wanted to meet me. I finaly said OK but you do have to send me a whole body pic first. As it truned out she was VERY heavy not the size 14 she said she was more like 3x.
This is the second time this has happened to me.
I don't mind a few extra pounds, I like buxom but please people be honest. If you have intentions on meeting a person don't you think they may be pissed that you were dishonest and may be hurtful to you?
I guees I'm ust blowing off steam. Thanks for your comments.

southrnpeach333 51F

2/2/2006 2:33 pm

I have found that some men add a few inches in the height department.

friendlypleser69 55M

2/6/2006 9:21 am

Ok, But then you may not attract the men that you may want, in other words they may not Re to your ad because they think you are heavy. And disapoint the men that are looking for a lady with a few more lbs. on her.
But that's my way of thinking, I say be honest.

ohsodelicious 58F
1922 posts
2/6/2006 9:21 pm

I to am honest and would hope that, whomever I correspond with is also being honest. Unfortunately, that is not always the case. I have had a lot of guys play games too...want pictures from me...but will never send one of themselves. I do have face shots, but I covet them. I’m not going to send one to just anyone who wants one...{{I work in a male dominated field, so I prefer to maintain my anonymity}} I retain my ‘face picture’ for members...{this will sound strange}...members who seem real and are actually interested in meeting and getting to know me...sounds weird on a ‘sex’ site...but there you have ‘it’ and women have the same CRAP pulled on’s not gender specific. Good Luck!!


friendlypleser69 55M

2/7/2006 1:01 pm

Yeah, I'm sure it goes both ways with this. And it makes it harder for us nice people to trust anybody here. I always send a face pic with my first email but I can't post one for obvious reasons.
It's the sheer stupidity that gets to me, if you want to meet people for sex they have to find you attractive from the word "GO". If you lie about your looks and go to meet them don't you think they are going to find out the truth? Duhhh!
Thanks for responding, luv ya!

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