Is it all a front?????  

freetime648 53F
7629 posts
8/17/2006 1:49 am

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8/17/2006 1:57 pm

Is it all a front?????

There is a few people on AdultFriendFinder that I have met face to face. And through these meetings I have been blessed to have made connections as friends....good friends!

But, there are a few who, although we laugh and crack on each other with jokes and in a fun way, we have not met! (UNFORTUNATELY, I may add).

These people are ones that I cherish, the banter and the commenting on blogs seem to make my day all the more better! I would miss them if they did not comment or were not in the chatroom to talk to.

Now to the point of this blog.....

What can you tell of a person by just chatting? Can you get into them the same as seeing them face to face? Or do you need that one on one to determine a persons personality?

Are these people only fronting because they are on the internet???

I have to admit, a few I have had to ask myself these questions. But, some are as real on here as they could be! I am one of those people as well. What you get on here is what you get if we had coffee or drinks! (Probablly more so if we had drinks! )

I could make a list of people on here who I would LOVE to meet but, I will not do that....just to save embarrassment and well...cause I know me...I would forget a couple of names and then they would get offended and I won't do it!

So, lets ask this: How much of YOU do you allow others on here to see?

xx FREETIME648 xx

maverick1255 52M
3953 posts
8/17/2006 1:02 pm

Yea, I am the same here as in RL. But face to face, since we are friends, I would be more me!!!! Just because I would feel more comfortable, and open.

You get to the states, and we will see about a meet!!

GB_Cple 67M/56F  
3113 posts
8/17/2006 12:15 pm

would love to meet you

citizen4722 60M  
54537 posts
8/17/2006 8:41 am

I know i'm not exactly a prize catch, being classed as disabled, but i have been honest and i am not putting on a front. I have been invited to meets on this site, but something always seems to crop up, usually finances, distances or rhuematic flare-ups. I will admit i do have a tendancy to post terrible jokes when can't think of what to say, but other than that it's definately me.
I can honestly say i would be happy to meet some good friends on this site.

dutchpete 55M
563 posts
8/17/2006 7:13 am

which side do you want me to show ?
The front...the back...the top (you can that already )..the bottom

And why the h..l do we need drinks to end up at : probably more so....if you like what you see

Additionally I think I would have a fantastic evening out when you and Wacky were on the same table during dinner...

rm_WackyEPP 54F
8470 posts
8/17/2006 2:57 am

Anyone who reads my blog will see more than they should about me.

At a meet recently a guy payed me the biggest compliment he could without maybe realizing it. He said "It does exactly what it says on the tin" in other words, what you see is what you get. He said I was exactly like the person in my blog and convo's we'd had.

If nothing I'm open and honest and would hope that others would be the same.

Would love to meet you.

Wacky Jacky

Glimmer_Man06 48M
3308 posts
8/17/2006 2:24 am

I am generally open and honest. I am the same old idiot you get here. I can be serious, I can be a clown, affectionate, sensitive and so on.

I am me here the same way I am in life. Dont believe me? Try me! I am just around the corner and I would more than love to meet you for coffee or drinks(I dont drink, but I will have fun watching you).

They say a woman ages like fine wine...

...mine ages like milk!

funintheday2006 57M
9659 posts
8/17/2006 2:20 am

I let them see my logo ----> <---- I am a sharing kinda guy aint I

rm_misterEd0950 62
163 posts
8/17/2006 2:13 am

Well I am honest and up front in who I am, what I like, and what I am looking for. I expect the same from others. I don't want anyone to be surprised when we meet and I don't want any surprises from them A profile is a start, but I get a better idea of who someone is with a little phone chat. There are a lot of women I would love to meet in person but distance seems to be the problem.

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