Is a man worth fighting over????  

freetime648 53F
7629 posts
3/21/2006 6:49 am

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3/23/2006 1:06 am

Is a man worth fighting over????

Remember back in the day when you were dating a guy and another girl would talk to him??? Your first words were along the lines of " I am kicking her ass!"

Looking back on it now, you have to sit and scratch your head and wonder ..... WHY??

Was it ever worth the fight or the aggravation? Or was it just the juvenile's way of administering her authority?

These days, in the age that I am in now, I look at this as something funny. I know it was an age thing but there still women now that do the same thing. As for me....hell no! If someone hits on my husband I just laugh and tease my hubby about it. I will not "throw down" for his sake. I will not fight over a man....either he is with me or he is not...his choice.......

Am I saying no man is worth fighting for??? No, I am saying no man is worth showing your ass for. You can defend your relationship without getting physical. And I for one, am a TACKY, TACKY woman when it comes to other women getting too close. But, again, as long as you are right in your relationship....let them flirt all they skin off my nose!

So, would you get physical with another woman over your man??? Or would you play it cool and just say tacky shit behind her back??

xx FREETIME648 xx

HotDev1l 46M
1360 posts
3/22/2006 4:04 pm

I think (looking at both the male and female perspective) that no one is worth "fighting" over in the basic sense.
I have been very fortunate in my life to have loved/lived with/dated some very beautiful women. When we have attended social functions we have always gone our separate ways and mingled. Sometimes we have ended up flirting with other people and yes sometimes one or other of us have been close to being "on the to-do list" but the one thing that has always kept me focussed on enjoying myself is the fact that I am confident that my partner at the time is happy with me, that we have no "unspoken issues to resolve" and that at the end of the night we are going to leave together, so I find it a turn on knowing that there are other guys wanting to be with the lady I am fortunate enough to have the honour of being with. I am happy in the sense that we rock each others world and to that extent I have always made the effort to not go to sleep without resolving an argument and to not leave the house without saying I love you.

Wackytits 54F

3/21/2006 9:41 am

You are so right. At the end of the day it's all about trust, if you trust your man whats the problem. A bit flirting never hurt anyone. xx

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