Excuse me...which face was talking?  

freetime648 53F
7629 posts
2/9/2006 3:02 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Excuse me...which face was talking?

I have to say this and I am sure I am preaching to the choir but, I have to say it nonetheless.

I am a very "to myself" kind of person. When and IF I reveal anything about myself I am doing so in utter confidence and trust. I expect the person I am talking to, to be as discreet and honest as I. I am not a dumb woman. I have been around the proverbial block a couple times too. I do know when someone has breached my trust. And once that trust is broken, it is very difficult to regain it. It takes alot for me to forget. I may forgive the indescretion but forget I will never do. I will remember it and my trust for that person is gone! You may stay my friend but, a friend without trust is a very moot point. Get the point?

I am not trying to be harsh and be "Billy Bad-ass" here but I take my friendships with an extreme dose of common courtesy and faith. And if they cannot or choose not to return that friendship with the same vigor than I have, there is no choice but to let them go. I have many, many friends that I CAN trust and CAN honor, it makes me no difference to move on to them and focus my attention onto the friends that deserve it.

To my true friends, I appreciate the trust and the friendships.....to the ones who CLAIM to be my friends and go behind my back talking trash...

REAP WHAT YOU SOW!!!!!!!!!!!

xx FREETIME648 xx

oldman1776 80M
3164 posts
2/9/2006 12:35 pm

Well said if I can't trust some one I don't think they are real friends.

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