Feeling the need to vent a little  

flagg134 37M
1430 posts
3/8/2006 2:28 pm

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Feeling the need to vent a little

Lots of things going on in my life AdultFriendFinder has been a good way to get out some frustrations through the advice lines. Which is something I should try to do more in real life. I tend to keep my anger to myself in life. Biting my tongue till it falls off LOL.

My job is at this point grating into my nerves I am an auditor if you can't read profiles. Its a sad state I go to work everyday hoping someone fucks up or attempts to steal. My boss getting under my skin telling me he wants more numbers out of me. Told him I'll try LOL at self. Meant to say "What do you want me to do put merchandise in their pockets". He wants me to nitpick the small stuff just to get people fired its just not in my nature I'm too soft I guess.

In other news one of my good friends recently had a girl he met online from Mississipi. Come up here to New York to live with him till she finds an apartment. Now I am all for him being happy and I congradulated him. Problem number one with this situation he still lives with his mom and I dont think she will want to put up with the extra person in the house for long. I also feel bad for both of them being a little naive in the situation. Her for coming up here and putting so much trust in him. Him for not understanding what hes getting into. They have known each other for roughly 4 months from talking online and on the phone they also have met twice him flying out to mississippi. Apartment hunting in New York is awful I also dont know how well they will take to each other once reality sets in and they have to start making ends meet. I guess all I can do is wish them luck at this point its to late to advise against it.

My best friend is dealing with the loss of a friend she knew for longer than I have been alive. I know how it feels to lose someone close I am doing my best to console her loss. She is lashing out at people and not handling it well at all. Which is very understandable and I take nothing being said about me to heart. Even though I have been through this myself I don't know best how to help her through it. Just wish sometimes that I could put her pain on my shoulder so she could smile and see all the people whose lives she affects in a positive way and how much we care for her.

Guess I should stop rambling
Thx for listening

header1979 38M
507 posts
3/8/2006 8:30 pm

Hey Patrick, it is not good when your job sucks. You don't say what your education is or what type of auditor you are but if you get your CPA you can move onto more interesting things. My father-in-law was a CPA and he became a bank comptroller and I have a couple of cousins with CPA's who are in major accounting firms. They all liked their work. Accounting and auditing isn't my thing. If you are into finance and accounting, you can't be in a better spot than you are. I really like Manhattan and would like to work there if I had the right job skills for NYC. But being a policy wonk and working with national policy issues, Washington is the only place to be. I like Washington and NYC is only a short train ride to Penn Station so I get into town for shows and on business ocasionally.You are lucky to live in NYC.


flagg134 37M
1582 posts
3/8/2006 8:48 pm

Thanks header I'm not really into finance my education is geared more towards computer programming. Unfortunately the market is tight and I needed a job to stay afloat so I took it. I guess its just working with different types of numbers when you look at it. Your job sounds interesting though I would never have the public speaking ability to excel at it. I haven't traveled often to Washington so I don't have much of an opinion on it. NYC is a great city to live in as far as it is so vast in its culture if you are looking for anything it can be found here. From Broadway shows to burlesque even street performers theres a lot to take in.

SolarPowered0 111M
8026 posts
3/8/2006 11:04 pm

One of the problems with a job is having to "swallow" what the boss feds you. However, if it comes down to "fabricating" numbers to serve his purposes, rememeber, there's a guy on trial right now (from Enron) who is being faced with testimony from another guy (from Enron) about how the first guy "feed" the scond guy a line about "fabricating" some numbers. A word to the wise is sufficient.


SolarPowered0 111M
8026 posts
3/10/2006 6:54 pm

Sorry about the misspells. It was kinda late.


flagg134 37M
1582 posts
3/10/2006 7:29 pm

LOL no worries solar I don't cook numbers Solar though its my job to catch people who try. Sorry about not responding so late didn't like this post much I hate sounding whiny. I shouldn't be putting out my dirty laundry anyway lol. I'm not a stickler on spelling either JSUT HETA POEPLE WHO TYPO LIEK THES. lol


Hippink 36F  
4498 posts
3/10/2006 8:57 pm

hey, Flagg!

The job... Jobs have to suck sometimes, or they wouldn't feel a need to pay you for doing them.

The friend with the LDR... I have a good friend, 22 yrs old, who moved in with a GF he met on-line. He moved to her place. He was back in a couple of weeks. But, then again, sometimes these things do work out... I have an Aunt & Uncle who met and married all within a week. Two kids and about 25 years later, they're still a pretty happy couple.

The friend who lost a friend... my same 22 yr old friend lost what he felt was his soul-mate. Soemtimes, we'd catch each other on-line at 5AM and chat about it. Sometimes, he'd go months without talking about it at all,.... then something would trigger him falling into despair again. It is a long healing process. All you can do is be there when she needs you to be... and don't bring it up unless she does.

We all have those melancholy moments. *HUG*
Hippie XXX

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flagg134 37M
1582 posts
3/11/2006 11:32 am

Hey Hippie

I hear you about jobs sucking good point. Besides mine doesn't suck half as much as many other peoples. I'm free to work at my pace no one directly supervising me.

I've known this friend since I was 12. So my read here is probably right. He has never had any real responsibility on him can't hold a job for more then 6 months because he quits for some nonsense reason. Never to my knowledge had a LTR. Just don't think he knows what he is getting into. I do hope for the best but its hard for me not to see things in a realistic viewpoint. Congrats for your Aunt and Uncle sometimes things do work out that way. It did for me once..

I've been down the road my friend has I have learned to accept but it left me a little scarred less trusting of people in a way I guess. I see that happening to her and it tears my insides apart. She used to be a lively person now all she does is spit venom out. Which I can take then apologizes to me later. My support, advice, and ear are hers to bend. I never talk to her about it lest she bring it up theres no reason to bring up memories like that.

Much Appreciated

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