firestarter665 43M/40F
3158 posts
6/1/2006 5:56 am

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6/3/2006 10:14 am


I was up pretty late last night due to my daughter being sick. When she finally went into her room I went onto the computer until I knew she was fast asleep. So I started to read some blogs. I came across one that was truly disturbing.

This woman posted how she started talking to a married man on here and how she had feelings for him. She was rejected by this man (not an uncommon occurance). She also said that when she first joined that she thought that this was just a friend site. WTF? The friggin home page clearly states that this is a sex and swinger site. Apparently some people can't read.

Anyway, she said by the time she realized that this was a sex site, she was already hooked. Due to the fact that she was rejected by this man, she was contiplating suicide.

You could not respond to this post and when I went to her blog page, the post was not there. It was only in the recent posts. I wanted to leave this woman a message saying that no person should make her feel like she should end her life. I wanted to tell her to get help, to talk to family or friends that could help her through this. I wanted to tell her that life is special and just because one person rejects you doesn't mean that you will never find anyone else.

I searched for her this morning, but could not find her. Even though this is a sex site, I feel that we should still look out for one another.

Did anyone else see that post?

caressmewell 54F

6/1/2006 7:44 am

I didn't see the post and hopefully the blogger removed it. But I agree with jerseygem...that she must have deeper issues than rejection.

firestarter665 replies on 6/1/2006 3:51 pm:
Her blog is gone (the whole thing) and I was not able to find her profile as well.

(What the fuck is this shit..?? *rolls eyes*)

6/1/2006 9:31 am

No I didn't see it but your right we have to watch out for each other hell what the point of Blog-Ville if we don't..??..!!...Ready


firestarter665 replies on 6/1/2006 3:52 pm:
I just wish I had gotten to her sooner, before her whole blog was removed.

SpaceRangerNJ 56M
4687 posts
6/1/2006 1:58 pm

Didn't see that one. Have run across some seriously depressed folks. Having a tough time with life. Try to help as best I can. Hate to see anyone hurting.
Big hug to the whole world.

firestarter665 replies on 6/1/2006 3:54 pm:
That's all we can do is help the best that we are able to.

rm_bigchoklatdk 46M

6/1/2006 10:05 pm

Did not see it, but I hope everything is OK. There are just too many fish to be torn over one guppy!


firestarter665 replies on 6/2/2006 9:18 am:
So true.

HeartlessBitch69 47F

6/1/2006 11:17 pm

I did see that post, and it sounded fucked up even for me! Girl needs HELP!

firestarter665 replies on 6/2/2006 9:19 am:
I am glad that someone else saw it. That girl does need help and I hope she gets it.

libgemOH 57M/53F

6/2/2006 4:13 am

One of the biggest things I've found in blogsville is drama of every kind and sort. Early on, when I first got into blogging, I got myself stuck right in the middle of some and I now go out of my way to avoid it. The good news is, most who are contemplating suicide don't publicize it for the world unless they are looking for help. Hopefully, someone who knows her read it and got her some help.

But A, you will drive yourself crazy if you try to help em all! (taken from my own experience and my own desire to fix it!) Help those you can and say a prayer for help for the other ones. My prayer has been said for her already. -B

firestarter665 replies on 6/2/2006 9:21 am:
Thank you for this comment. It makes me feel better that it may have been a cry for help more than her going of to kill herself. I will say a prayer for her.

marywannado 44F

6/2/2006 7:50 am

Nope didn't see it,,, damn, some people are really out there...

firestarter665 replies on 6/2/2006 9:22 am:
It makes me wonder about people. How that can get that depressed over someone they have never met.

rm_DarknStar 55F
2823 posts
6/2/2006 1:46 pm

Didnt see the post!....But can say NO man is worth killin yourself over!....Hope this woman is well, and finds what she is looking for!

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