My Last Shred of Privacy  

fingerlickin_69 43M
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6/7/2006 12:16 am

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My Last Shred of Privacy

Admittedly, this is my first blog (ever!). I've spent the last day or so considering how to do this; should I have a theme? should I consider giving advice? should I type the whole damn thing in purple? Having opted against the purple, and realizing that I am in no way qualified to give advice (except legal, of course!), I guess the only thing I can write about is what is in my head and my heart, regardless of how often they get in the way of what I really want to say. Ironically, though, how those things are easier to write out when one has a few beers after work to grease the wheels a bit!

So, I met this girl a few weeks ago. I met her through a herpes site (starts with "m," ends with "pwh," on the NET), and we talked a few times, and she seemed cool, so we met up in person. It was a huge deal for her to specify that we were "hanging out," and "friends." That it was not all about sex, but if it happened to be part of the deal, great, but we were not really looking for a long-term deal. I was thinking, great! Finally a true "friend with benefits"!

Of course, we end up having sex a few times. Lo and behold! What starts happening? Phone calls and texts every day. Questions about whether I was still interested if I didn't call back right away. I mean...what?!?! And this was after barely a week! So, after feeling a little smothered, considering our agreed upon premise, I broke it off. And what do I get? "Well, I guess it was just a fuck for you! Why didn't you just say that's all you wanted?"

So, my pseudo-rhetorical question to myself is: can a man ever rely upon the fact that a relationship is truly "for fun" or "no strings attached"? Is it physically or psychologically possible for a man to say to a woman that they will see what happens, and not get his head bitten off when nothing more does happen?

I shake my magic 8-ball, and it tells me "sources say no." I cannot believe that. Surely, somewhere, there are women who mean and do what they say. Are they on AdultFriendFinder? Consulting my 8-ball, it comes up stuck on the corner with no clear answer. I guess only time will tell...

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