the final chapter  

finelady4_44 58F
421 posts
3/28/2005 5:34 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

the final chapter

Ok on the advice of many, which I took to heart, I informed love interest what it is I want, what I crave, and his reply was...
"Ok, Im willing to sacrifice my pleasure to do that, but I wont do it every time" Good grief!
I said, do u not like oral? do u not like my taste? To which he said yes he loves my taste, he loves oral, but he claims he gets too hot with me, and it was hard for him to delay his own pleasure. Im thinking that sounds very selfish.
More comments please from readers!

keithcancook 61M
18138 posts
3/28/2005 7:03 pm

Definately selfish, no doubt about it. In fact, it is close to appalling. Of course you don't want to do it the same way everytime but this cad is telling you not to expect much from him whatever the scenario.

keithcancook 61M
18138 posts
3/29/2005 5:03 pm

I bet you will change your advice if you go back and read finelady's earlier posts sexyfitwoman.

AughtMusedSpill 50M

3/30/2005 5:53 am

That's ridiculous! Time for the boot. Sex in a relationship is about sharing, bringing pleasure to your partner, not about getting your own. Tell him to get a hooker if he doesn't want to delay his pleasure, and kick him to the curb.

expatbrit49 64M

3/30/2005 10:06 am

It sounds a little lame to me, I think I agree with tedzilla

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1 post
3/31/2005 4:45 am

This guy sounds like a very selfish, self centered guy. A real lover wants to please his woman every way possible. It gives me great pleasure to please my woman orally because I know she will be more willing to reciprocate.

ReadyToTango46 59M
161 posts
4/2/2005 2:26 am

What an alien concept to me. Long foreplay sessions are the best! Lose the guy - he's a jump ya quick and then go to sleep type. Just by the fact that he said that to you means he's not gonna be willing to "sacrifice his own pleasure" for long.

May I ask how old this guy is?


4/2/2005 4:22 am

What a selfish load. One of the great pleasures of any sexual encounter is knowing that you've satisfied your partner. Plus, if you do it right and your partner isn't just plain skanky, eating pussy is just flat-out enjoyable.

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