does it get better the 2nd time?  

finelady4_44 57F
421 posts
6/1/2006 9:02 am

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7/22/2006 9:41 am

does it get better the 2nd time?

After months of flirting, chatting, laughing, enjoying each other in every other way, we finally made love.
He looks like an Adonis, I have never in my life found a man so attractive, but this is in part because he keeps my mind so stimulated and that for me is a major turn on.

He lives far from me, in another state, and only gets to my neck of the woods once a month.

We finally got lost in passion, stripped each other hungrily and made love.
Neither one of us had in some time, so perhaps that is why it was very...ummm.. unsatisfying.

He loved my mouth on his cock, but it was like almost too much sensation for him, and he was totally unsure of himself while lovemaking which surprised me for a man of his usual confidence.

It was over before I was even out the gate and he was snoring.

Sighhhhh.. my big beautiful Adonis.. can we improve this with time???

bobbyisnaughty 41M

6/2/2006 8:04 am

After reading the first three paragraphs, the last three just surprised me too. I don't mean that he got over so quickly .. I am surprised that he did not take care of you first. I know that sounds patronizing but it is quite a well-known fact given the nature of the male orgasm.

Optimism makes us think that he will improve over time and it might happen. But the real questions are - is he willing to learn and are you willing to teach? A man is gifted with more than his genitalia to pleasure his partner. He is either not aware of this or considers sex as a release rather than an enjoying activity. Given the fact that he went off to sleep immediately after that makes him look selfish but hey I was not must have been tired from the long drive/travel.

Just my $0.02 if it helps!



ghost_wolf_runs 71M

6/2/2006 11:14 pm

Sounds like he was more self-centered than initially revealed; especially after reading about the next least he could have reciprocated orally until you couldn't walk. Don't give up hope, fulfillment is out there somewhere.

AughtMusedSpill 49M

6/3/2006 7:01 am

Well at least you don't have to wait another month for all build-up and no delivery. He should have made you climb the walls after he was finished so fast. Maybe a guy a little closer to home would be more to your liking?

ghost_wolf_runs 71M

6/3/2006 11:29 am

Yeah, it's kind of funny like that sometimes when the package doesn't live up to the wrapping...there's something in the Kama Sutra that addresses how certain types just don't fit one another no matter how it might appear at first glance...and although eroticism definitely starts in the mind, it's still important to find your partners triggers and pull them all night long

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