A night of exstasy or...?  

finelady4_44 57F
421 posts
3/26/2005 1:31 am

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A night of exstasy or...?

Or was it? Current love interest called at 11pm to say he had to see me. I showered, dressed in a totally hot lacy purple number, lit candles, spritzed his favorite perfume, and touched up toenail polish..because he loves my feet. I put on soft jazz and met him at the door with a hungry look in my eyes. I stripped him, kissed him, devoured him and finally.... drumroll please.. he filled me up and pumped away like a man on the brink of insanity...once, twice, three times...and I gave him every pleasure I knew I could possibly give.
He said all the right things, said he adored my body, said I was the best he had ever had.. (what woman doesnt want to hear that!) kissed me from head to toe over and over except for the one spot I craved..BUT... again I find myself the giver, which I love, but I did not recieve, I just gave and gave. He touched me and brought me to orgasm twice and I convulsed and screamed and exploded, but I didnt get what I really wanted, what I crave. I even inserted a finger inside me and together we licked it and he said he loved my taste. I know he was just estatic that he finally was able to stay hard enough to make love to me 3 times (and let me tell u, I worked plenty hard to get him there..hahaha) So the problem is... he obviously knows how to ask me for what he wants, knowing I will eagerly deliver, but why oh why cant I? Am I so conditioned to being the pleaser?

keithcancook 61M
17954 posts
3/26/2005 3:57 am

Yep, you are conditioned. Keep trying to step out of those bounds. You will triumph and get what you want when you do. Make a game of it perhaps. Each of you write down two things that you would like to have sexually and exchange em. Then, if in agreement, put em in a hat and start the festivities.

SmallShakoRival 61M
88 posts
3/26/2005 6:48 am

You could come right out, in the heat of the moment, and tell him exactly what you want. Make it dirty too, men like that!

"Ones' attitude greatly determines the outcome of any difficult task"

AughtMusedSpill 49M

3/26/2005 9:29 am

It looks to me that you'll never get what you want from this one...he's too conditioned to getting what he wants, and you doing all you can to give it to him.

If you have to ask or beg for it, then it's obvious that he doesn't truly know what you want, and obviously doesn't care enough to ask you himself. I have never met you and I know you love to be orally pleasured; why doesn't he?

mnfun952 103M

3/26/2005 9:40 am

..or move yourself around on top of him so your pussy is right there in front of him... in a 69...

tat2dmale69 49M

3/26/2005 10:09 am

If you have a hard time asking for what you want, then try this. I DO NOT know any man that can refuse a 69. You've heard the expression... It was right there in my face, what could I do. LOL

parrothead144 61M

4/2/2005 4:17 am

You shouldn't have to ask for it, suggest it, or coerce it from him. If he knows that it gives you pleasure (duh...), it should be in the forefront of his mind from the first moment he sees you.

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