What is MY problem?  

figjamsquared 54M
2 posts
5/25/2006 12:30 am

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5/28/2006 10:56 pm

What is MY problem?

MOOD----Perplexed (Wasn't included in the all-inclusive list!!!!!)

As the description says...early next month I am letting my membership expire. Firstly, the powers that be have decided to exclude my brand of Credit Card from those they accept.

However, more pertinent, I would probably have let it expire at any rate due to a total lack of success here.

In defining "...total lack of succss...", I simply mean I didn't get laid after three months of membership. Not even close.

Pure and simple....that was all I wanted, and from what I have seen, a not entirely unreasonable desire from a place such as this.

What I am striving to understand is......WHY NOT.

This is where I need some help in understanding.

I have tried numerous 'approaches':-the quick note, the lengthy 'rave', the blithe, offhanded comment, the humorous comment, and the downright quick and dirty!

Not a sausage!!!!

Well, not entirely true....there was one....but it was just not at all satisfactory from my point of view.

Perhaps in highsight, I should have accepted (although I did initiate it), but as time went on, there was just way too much overhead involved.

It appeard to me that just about every woman in the "I want a quickie" demographic (and I'm talking 30's 40's here) wanted someone, (A little hyperbole here) just out of nappies, with the IQ of Einstein and, most importantly, around 200 cm tall.

Jesus, I just couldn't compete. Oh, and as per someone's blog that I read....my photo's were painfully up-to-date.

Now, let me know just how wrong I ~may~ be, but speaking of which, as far as photo's go, the scar where my second head used to be is pretty-well disguised, at 160-cm, I didn't stand on a box, and my dick is more that 1.5 cm long. Oh, and the face hasn't broken too many mirrors of late.

Next....OK,I work in IT...but no, my personality hasn't gone on permanent sabbatical.

Thirdly, I think I've managed to put all the words in this modest rant in vaguely the right order (get back to me on this as required).

In short, I think I fulfilled all the requirements of a sort of average guy.

So, the answer I am seeking is......WHAT IS MY PROBLEM.

All answers gratefully (really!!!!) accepted, and the prize of a Chupa-Chup will go to the best entry.

Thanks for your time!!!

(Real Name)


imsohorny19822 36F
1728 posts
5/25/2006 1:28 am

I dont think you have a problem Pat, its just that this site is so hard to initiate things through. Some women on here are picky and have a particular view of what they want from a guy, and the possibility is that you dont fall into the category.

I have heard so many people compaining about paid memberships lately, and many people are letting them lapse, in actual fact, you dont really need one to use the site.

Maybe you could try having a look at the groups on AdultFriendFinder and join a few, some of them have meet and greets where you can meet a variety of people, who knows what could come from it

Maybe come along and check the Central Vic Fun Group, we have many meets, however, most of them are in Bendigo, but you are more than welcome to come along and meet people.

Stick it out a bit longer, keep checking profiles and sending your winks. You will never get anywhere if you dont try. If you do go back to being standard, check your points. You can transfer points into contacts, so you can view peoples profiles and send them messages still.

Good Luck


figjamsquared 54M
10 posts
5/25/2006 2:05 am

Thanks for the comment....Considering I only put this blog up today....unbelievably quick!!

I'll keep what you said in mind - But I'd hate to tell you the number of winks, notes etc.etc. I've sent.

Anyway, once again, appreciated the thought!


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