Question for you men...  

fiestygirl72 45F
41 posts
9/14/2005 9:00 am

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Question for you men...

What does a man really fantasize about besides having two hot women at the same time. What makes you lust and crazy for sex? What do you guys crave from a woman? Be as honest as possible and just open up your sweet mind.

You all have a wonderful day now!!

ByteChaser2 54M

9/14/2005 9:30 am

Well... I don't know about all men... but frankly, the thought of two women at once kind of scares me. I mean, talk about performance anxiety!

So what gets me going... good question. And one I'm not sure I can give an adequate answer to. There really isn't any one thing that puts me over the edge. I mean, just the thought that a woman wants to have sex is enough to get me going!

Hell, maybe I'm just easy to please... Ya think

rm_4nik8_4u 62M
2501 posts
9/14/2005 9:41 am

A passionate woman, one who loves sex as much as I do, one who completely lets go and is practically out of control, one who is not afraid of experiencing new and different things, one who doesn't see any aspect of sex as dirty. You should check my profile.

wicked_beatz 40M
3 posts
9/14/2005 9:46 am

Hey, I chanced upon this blog, and it seems to be a pretty interesting topic.
My fantasy with a woman? Hmmmmm...well, let's just say it has to be sensual, and involves a lot of 'atmosphere', so to speak. After all, if the mood ain't right, you can never go and on and on, which is basically my prerogative for good (or better) sex.

wicked_beatz 40M
3 posts
9/14/2005 9:48 am

You know, any man will tell ya this: a woman who really lets go is a real turn-on! The fact that she enjoys sex as much as I do is a very erotic thought. That's the real deal.

Justadude62 52M

9/14/2005 10:32 am

Just the thrill of being with someone other than the person I'm with actually works for me

vengeur 42M  
837 posts
9/14/2005 10:37 am

I crave women who know what it really means to be "a lady in public and a whore in the bedroom".

pluscachange2004 50M
14 posts
9/14/2005 11:42 am

Abandonded restraint and passion overtaking them, without five hours of preparation and $400 worth of candles, music, dinner, wine and a nice cottage retreat being necessary. A woman who gets the urge and acts on it at times you least expect her to. A woman who desires a man, hungers for him, and does not hide it behind nice words or wastes it chatting to her friends without ever acting upon it. A woman that longs for your kiss, craves your touch, who surprises you by answering that door in a thong and nothing else when you come home no matter how cliched that might sound. A woman who is feminine, giggly, erotic, bubbly, beautiful without high maintenance written all over her, nice without ulterior motives, honest and passionate and doesn't try to make every moment in life some kind of competition with men.

rm_imtcbn 49M

9/14/2005 11:58 am

A woman who has confidence. She may not have the perfect body but a woman that belives is the sexy is a big turn on. Not arrogance but confidence.

redmustang91 58M  
8917 posts
9/14/2005 12:05 pm

I say a Shakira video pretty much sums it up. An attractive lady who is working on her belly dancing moves, is flexible and horny!

sexstarvedvirgin 35M

9/14/2005 12:31 pm

I (by choice) am sex starved, but I haven't done a very good job of keeping myself from porn, masturbation and fantasy. So I have to admit I'd be a little more involved in my fantasies than others, which makes me think this might be a post you wanted.

I think our media and culture could be very misleading when it comes to mens' fantasy. I'm sure favorite fantasies vary widely from person to person but I doubt it's anything like the clich├ęs you find in tv and movies. I don't fantasize about women in kinky costumes or with nympho attitudes because anything that's doesn't seem genuine is a big turnoff.

I have to admit that I've had the occasional storyline fantasy, with imaginative fictional elements like in those terrible erotic japanese cartoons (encountered them, not enjoyed them) only with much much better storytelling skills (again entertainment is too artificial, even fantasy should ring true on some level). While I was very intrigued and entertained by these fantasies, I would never tell them. They're more story with a side affect of eroticism rather than eroticism with a side helping of story, having nothing to do with what a woman enjoys they would definately be a terrible turn off to any woman I told it to. But at least they had the kind of personality, rhytm and style I, as an entertainer would put into my own cinema if I did animated porn.

Mostly, fantasies are more simple. I think about how I would approach her and how she would approach me. What ways we might touch each other before we even got started and what it would be like to be touched. How engrossed I could be with any part of her, and intense, how I would carress her and where. How slowly I'd start, what things I might say, genuine and full of passion. Will she desire me, will she want to do things to me? I'd love to let her fondle my balls for as long as she wants. What would I tell her, could I show her just the right gentle but not too gentle touch or let her find her own way? Would she let me touch her, explore her, give all my attention to every part of her body? Other times I think about things like what would happen if we didn't think at all, doing nothing on our own and seeing where our urges would prod us to go.

The best fantasies are simpler still. Some nights when it's dark and quiet and the images playing in my mind are most vivid, I have very simple but powerful images, deeply engrossed only in a womans body. The soft belly and chest, inhaling and exhaling. I think about her smooth muscular shapely bottom, moving and turning (and slightly jiggling) in ways that give you all the good angles, mezmerizing, hypnotic, not the lifeless, monotonous, artificial angles and movements you get in cheap internet porn. And it's *all* the sexy areas too, not only "the goods". The legs, the beautiful little shapes in small of her back and up her back to her sholders, the intimate area just above her breasts and her neck, the gentle curve around her rib cage. Soft perfect breasts the way they squeese together, and how they seem so inviting. Any and every motion and angle that most strongly characterizes living, breathing, jiggling, moving, sweating and feeling. These are the kind of thoughts I can't think or write without stroking myself.

I like to think about things that are unique. Things that will give me a new attractive perspective.

I've never really heard a woman's fantasies. I've often wondered if she gets turned on the same way. Would you be able to share in return?

RailBaron2 55M

9/14/2005 8:23 pm

My fantasy is listed in my Main profile, what makes me lust & crazy for sex,at this point - just about any woman walking by that I find attractive.

fiestygirl72 45F

9/15/2005 7:03 pm

Gentlemen, I so enjoyed reading your posts of what turns you men on. You made me realize that men pretty much the same thing women want, now if only we all knew that. I'll be posting soon what my fantsies are and hope you all enjoy it. Until then, have a good night.

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