In need of new friends now accepting applications.  

fiery_one06 36F
56 posts
1/27/2006 7:00 pm

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In need of new friends now accepting applications.

So here it is Friday night and what am I doing?? Sitting home because once again my friends have bailed on me. Last night I was supposed to have met up with someone but he called and told me that it was kinda late and he just wanted to go home and crash. Fine I understood the whole being tired thing and all but I was still bummed. I did go out for a drink by myself. I thought hey if I’m not going to celebrate with someone then might as well have a little party alone cause I am going out Friday.

Tonight I was going out to celebrate my divorce and everyone backs out. So here I am all kinds of pissed because I don’t have my kids and everyone has just left me high and dry. The nights/weekends I do have my boys that’s when everyone wants to hang out and do something.

GRRRRRRRRR I so need new friends. I was so looking forward to celebrating my freedom and just getting shit faced.

rm_Gentle12553 68M
1378 posts
1/27/2006 7:46 pm

well, whom am I to judge...but....amazing what one reads here.....

Good might need it

LustGoddess2469 51F  
2453 posts
1/27/2006 7:48 pm

That sucks - I feel your pain. I'm in the same boat. It seems any time I don't have my kids for a night, I can't find anything or anyone to do. lol But every other night when I DO have my boys, everyone in the damn world wants to go out or do something. I wonder why that is?

Well, congrats on your divorce, get some new friends, and party on.


rm_wetnessbiu 49F  
90 posts
1/27/2006 7:57 pm

Seems like that crap is always happening to me. When I have my kids, everyone wants to play....when they are not here...I am home alone!! Pisses me off as well!!

fiery_one06 36F

1/27/2006 9:19 pm

    Quoting rm_Gentle12553:
    well, whom am I to judge...but....amazing what one reads here.....

    Good might need it
I don’t think I like what you are implying. Do I really need new friends no the ones I have are great. I was really excited about going out tonight and forgive me if I got a little bummed that our plans feel through. Its not every day that someone celebrates their divorce ya know.

AdventureBeckons 44M
145 posts
1/28/2006 12:45 pm

I'm so sorry. Life altering events like that do need to be shared with friends. You do have us to listen in, but I know that is just not the same.

As I get older I have fewer and fewer real friends, but those I keep I know would drop anything in a moment of need. I bet your frineds just didn't grasp the importance of this particular moment. Is it possible that the divorce has been the focus of discussion for quite a while? Might that have served to desensitize them to the issue?

I suggest you plan a party, your coming out party, finally free of the chains, and all of that. Have your close friends over while the boys aren't with you and get shitfaced at home. No drunk driving!

fiery_one06 36F

1/28/2006 9:37 pm

Good point a party at home is always more fun. Only one small problem well two actually:
1.I've had to move back in with my parents.
2.I live in the middle of BFE and nobody wants to drive out here.

I look at it like this if not this weekend there are many more that I can party it up. I could always wait to really celebrate when my tax refund comes my way and head out to the Old Port and just rent a room down there.

onelittlesecret 34M
1579 posts
2/4/2006 2:48 pm

Still looking for applications?

Take care (don't speed! lol)

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