Damnit. Now I'm all riled up!  

fieldsofdaisy 42F
1343 posts
7/28/2006 2:44 pm

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11/7/2006 2:57 pm

Damnit. Now I'm all riled up!

I read alot of blogs. Yes, alot on AdultFriendFinder, but alot of blogs in other locations across the internet.

Anyway, one of my non-AdultFriendFinder favorite of favorites recently got attacked for being somewhat sexually explicit about her quest for getting laid. (see, people here don't bat an eyelash. But, some people out 'there' are just plain nasty!) The S-L-U-T word was used. It is getting a bit ugly.

One commenter on her blog posted something along these lines:

In this day and age Women married and single need to step it up a notch or two for themselves. We have fought for our rights as equals and then you go off and start trash talking like some street urchin who never learned a decent vocabulary word.

This particular comment sent me into overdrive. I am going to post my response to that comment here, because it's fitting, and well, because I feel like it!

This is how I responded:

You've got to be kidding me!?!

What I would like to know is how 'fighting for our rights as equals' somehow became ignoring and/or suppressing our sexuality?

As a matter of fact, it is the ULTIMATE in independence and feminism to OWN your sexuality. Embrace it. That means, talking about it. Reveling in it. Doing it over and over and over again with passionate abandon.

All suppressing our sexuality does is crush a vital part of who we are. We are not living in an age where we should be content to be the pursuit. We should be pursuing everything we want. Everything our heart desires. Because we CAN. THAT is the essence of independence, of feminism.

No, I'm not a raging feminist. I'm married, have kids. But, you know what? I'm a dirty little slut. I fuck my husband every way from Sunday, every damn chance I get. I tire his ass out on a regular basis. And, you know what?? He LOVES it. He adores it. He thinks I am the best goddamn thing that ever happened to him.

Men WANT women who want sex. They want to be desired, just as we do. Sex is not a chore.

Being open about your sexuality and your desires does not make you anything other than amazing in bed, and, well, damn, a good fucking conversationalist.

So. Let's stop the silly games. Let's not bash people we don't know, m'kay?

It's a happy little blogville... let's keep it that way.

'Nuff said.


ShaneLiveLife 51M

7/28/2006 3:41 pm

Glad that's off your chest Daisy

.... blogs are definately NOT the place to criticise others (no matter how tempting it can be sometimes)

Men WANT women who want sex. They want to be desired, just as we do. Sex is not a chore.

.... they certainly do !

One comment about expressing sexuality:

..... I think more women should express their desires

.............. and at the same time recognise that the way it is expressed and the context (i.e. a public blog)

..................... may turn some guys off

Live with passion !

druidrocker 63F

7/28/2006 3:50 pm

sing it sister !

SingleWarrior 53M

7/28/2006 5:50 pm

I knew I heard someone screaming from up I-80 somewhere

intierzha 45M

7/28/2006 6:26 pm

Inappropriate comments/responses to a blog/journal or otherwise show only the lack of restraint inherent (alas) within the impersonality of the Internet. No matter how we try and make it ours, the distance of the ether creates this gulf that somehow gives people the excuse to act in a fashion they would not otherwise. Of course, some people could really be that inappropriate in person, another of the more troubling trends in society. Where has all the courtesy gone?


SingleWarrior 53M

7/29/2006 4:55 pm

What time did I hear it? 2:34 pm on 7/28/2006

Then ten minutes later I saw this blog entry

moonlightphoenix 46F
6508 posts
7/29/2006 9:50 pm

This is sincerely a hot button topic these days. I've REALLY gotten my fill of the archaic doubles standards being thrown around blogville recently. What's surprised me the most, though, has been the WOMEN who've been labelling others... it seems that the sexual revolution was for naught...all but buried and forgotten. Or at least skipped a generation.

I refuse to be judged by someone else's sense of morality. Let them be judged by mine for a change.

Fuck 'em.


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