can this be right?  

fgocpl4fun 53M/44F
88 posts
9/9/2006 10:21 am

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9/20/2006 12:28 pm

can this be right?


we all know the difference between right and wrong--or so we say. we are all adults here, and need to cnduct ourselves in such ways. when i/we are on this site, i/we always treat others with the same respect and curtosy that we ourselves would like to be treated with. such is not the case with some poeple we meet here. while in the chat rooms recently, we started a conversation with someone looking for a hook-up in our area. since the chat room was very busy at the time, i agreed to go to another chat system. we talked there for a few minutes, then when asked if i could show a few pics of us, suddenly i got this: 'brb'. going back into the AdultFriendFinder chat room i saw this individual looking again for a hook-up, and getting no responses on the other chat system. FINALLY, when i asked (in other chat), if they were looking for someone more thier own body type i got a response that was a simple "yes". i don't know why i got so discusted, but i did. and i walked away asking myself "why are the people on this site so damn superficial?", then the thought crossed my mind: "is this the right site for us?" are we getting our hopes to high? we are no Ken and Barbie (check our profile), nor are we looking for them either. one doesn't have to fit that body type to "get us in the mood". there are so many other things that turn people on....like a person's mind, their attitude and outlook on life, and the person they are on the inside, things like that. those are the things that are more important to us. the one thing that tops the list for us is compatability--do we get along with, and like the other person? do they think/feel the same about us? now, before you answer.... remember, this is an issue we are up against all the time being people "who carry a little extra weight". we don't know if it is because of the area wee live in or what, but it certainly seems so to us. distance can make a response like: "people like that are ones you don't need to know anyway" or "if they can be so shallow as to base a 'relatioship' on looks alone, why would you let them use your body in that way anyway?" not that we don't believe you, but it seems that we get those comments from people who live far enough away that we never meet. and the only kind of responses we get from those close enough to meet are from guys with thier tongues hanging out only looking to get thier rocks off. this is the most disrespectful thing i can think of. a woman's body isn't just a place to deposit your load guys. if/when a couple invites you to join them....remember, it is for her pleasure, not yours! the women here (at least the one's we've met), have more respect for thier bodies than that, and don't just let anyone lay on top of them. they have chosen you for a reason, much the same as those in a bar. the women there don't just lay on the ar and let everyone have a turn do they?? of course not!! anyway, anough of my bitch session here, let's see what you all have to say now.

NCalPierce 44M

9/9/2006 4:58 pm

Couldn't have put it any better. Some folks are just inconsiderate to put it politely.


hornyoldguy1957 60M
26 posts
9/9/2006 8:45 pm

I know how you feel wondering if this site it worth the hassels.I have meet some nice folks(on line only),It does make one wonder if the local people are just sightseers or what.


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