Okay, so I'm new on AFF but.....  

femalesquirter 45F
256 posts
9/10/2005 1:51 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Okay, so I'm new on AFF but.....

What the hell??? Are the men here really that illiterate?? This is my second day here and I've received over 100 emails and that's nice... But really, do they all think they are what I've specifically mentioned that I'm looking for in my profile? Or are they simply ignoring me?? From the emails I've read, none of them are any of the qualities I seek. I'm not being a bitch. I'm just noting the facts. Please men, don't ignore what I wrote. I had put some thoughts into writing my profile so please be a little thoughtful and read it carefully before writing me, for God's sake.

rm_Balanon2 50M
193 posts
9/10/2005 3:32 pm

Yes, every man thinks they are "very bright, educated, very smart, very intelligent, a highly sexually driven handsome devil". So, that will filter out... just about nobody. As for the other stuff, I'm not going to add any hints for the guys, because I'm about make the e-mail shot myself

TheQuietGuy2005 55M
2386 posts
9/10/2005 4:52 pm

From what I hear when reading the blogs and the magazine - and from general chit-chat - most women here have the same problem.

One train of thought is that men are just inherently lazy. Another is that many men can't be bothered to do anything other than send out a standard letter to as many woman as possible because the ratio of men to women makes it unlikely that any one particular email will stand out - too much trouble for too little return.

Of course, you and I both know that it's precisely the carefully-crafted email that responds to your individual profile that is more likely to stand out. And get a response. And lead, maybe, to more.

And then these guys are surprised they can't find a partner ... and I'm grateful not to have the competition

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