Crossing the line  

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8/14/2006 2:37 am

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12/8/2014 8:33 pm

Crossing the line


I read a post in a group today from a married guy talking about his wife being out of town for the week and he was looking for another woman for mind-blowing sex. I know we're all a bunch of liberal-minded people here on AdultFriendFinder but I was just totally offended by that post. Have we become a society of people that thinks it's okay to brag about and advertise that you're cheating just for the hell of it? I mean, people cheat for a lot of different reasons but to say you're a happily married man just looking for variety while his ignorant wife is out of town is just such a turn-off. Are there ANY women out there that would jump on that invitation? I'm not asking for much...I want one person to call my own and be faithful to. People that are out there with a faithful spouse or significant other but are still cheating have a lot of nerve to think they deserve the love and affection of 2 people! I'd say that behavior makes them unworthy of any of it! I'll admit I had flings with a few married men when I was younger because I figured it wasn't my responsibility to be faithful. And then my second husband cheated on me. Maybe that helped to change my perspective, who knows. Back when I thought it was fun to sneak around and make a fool of some guy's wife, I was a very insecure person with low self esteem. I was happy to get attention from anyone, married or not. Allowing yourself to be used by someone else for their own selfish reasons only proves how little you think of yourself and it is a vicious cycle that only gets worse. Bottom line is that I have ZERO respect and ZERO attraction to a guy who cheats. If we read posts like the one above and think nothing of it, we may as well agree as a society that monogamy and marriage have no purpose anymore. Is that what we want?

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