He's just NOT that into you  

evilgothgirl 52F
326 posts
8/16/2006 8:59 am

Last Read:
8/17/2006 6:48 am

He's just NOT that into you

Hello my loves,

I recieved a book yesterday in the mail. It is He's just NOT that into you.

I always, always believe that everything has a reason and a time. Once again I am correct.

As you seen in my last post,,,I seem to be having difficulties. Yep, they have escalated.

Here is a not so brief rundown.

We decide that the time is coming up that we can spend a weekend together. We both agree how wonderful it would be. Later he states, yeah, we should do that (be together)

I make plans the Tues before, I tell you about them, and you seem SO not interested. (huh?)

On Wed you say how you are not comfortable with me just making plans assuming that it would be cool with you..afterall, you are broke (no fuckin surprise there)and you might have had things you wanted to do. You say your really wanted to go diving (hey, I thought you were broke) but your buddy is out of town anyway, so it is really a non issue now. Well, if it is a non issue, why the fuck did you say anything at all. I thought we decided it would be a good chance to spend time together?

So Friday comes along, and you show around 8pm. We have a great evening. Saturday you leave but will come back later, you have things to do. Wow was a surprised to see you back in only a few short hours. We have a nice dinner, snuggle a bit, and then get into an arguement. He sleeps on the couch. Sunday, we get up, shower, have breakfast and get ready to leave. As I go to my car you say...so is that it? Yep, I guess so...end of weekend.

Now a week later, you want to get together on Friday,,,I can't, but it is ok. I ask about Saturday....I wait forever...at 5pm you say lets get together, but to have to be leave by 9pm..I am not liking it, but am persuaded to say..ok. let's do it....only for you to say,...no nevermind..ARGHHHH!!!

Now comes Monday, we meet for lunch, and you ask when can we get together,,,I say today (wed) all is good, schedules look clear, and low a behold 10am comes along and you say, I don't feel like getting together,,,I have a sinus headache...(pussy)...

Basically I knew he would do this, hell we have been "dating" for 2 years, and this behavior is nothing new....

OK, vent over....this book. 165 pages of in our face, back to reality slapping, hard truth. I read the book in 4 hours. I seen myself and him in so many situations. All of it is true...He's just Not that into me.

I could point out hundreds of truths between him and this book, as well as how I have let him hurt and use me, for he is selfish, rude, uncaring, narrcisitic, etc, etc, etc.

I urge every woman to read this, and yes you guys should too. If you continue to treat us so badly, you might as well have a heads up about how we are not going to take it anymore, and leave your asses at the curb, with all the other dog shit.

I am empowered now with the tools to say, fuck you to all men who are just not that into me, and playing me. I will leave you all before you have the chance to ever hurt me and my self esteem again.

Whew!!! Yes I do feel better!

rm_agathon12 47M
1311 posts
8/16/2006 10:13 am

This is me giving you a standing ovation:

The one who is going to worship you is out there looking for you.

P.S. I love that artist...(Todd something-or-other, no?). He has another one which is just a painting of an empty table with the words, "I bring nothing to the table" on it.

evilgothgirl replies on 8/16/2006 11:04 am:
Thanks agathon....

The author is Greg Behrendt...he used to write for sex in the city and will have his own show on in September....

I don't want to be worshiped though...I just wanted this man to love me, and he didn't, doesn't and won't...so I am now officially done with any relationships....

Not even a one nighter.....\\Poke me with a fork...i am done!!!

ShyWhisper2006 54F
15175 posts
8/16/2006 8:06 pm

We have only ourselves to know what is right for us ...and yes we hold out hope...but when it is not returned back as we deserve...we need to take a long hard brutal look at what we allow ourselves to put up....Good for you hun...you deserve better...*hugs*
I so agree with the poke me with a fork...*giggles*

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