Meeting up  

eternal1969 48M
838 posts
8/17/2005 12:26 pm

Last Read:
3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Meeting up

Hello its just me;
The one online you always see.
Ever wondered what I'm like?
Or able to bear my sight?

Today I met with another new friend from AdultFriendFinder for the first time. We arranged to meet at a coffeeshop near her place as I haven't had dinner and we could talk over coffee.

She asked me how many women I have had sex with from this site and was surprised that in all this time I have only met up with less than 5 women from AdultFriendFinder and had no sex from this source. She had signed up for slightly more than a month and she had already met up with 50 men and had sex with half of them. I sensed that she was surprised that I arranged to meet her at a coffeeshop instead of a hourly rated room in some hotel. This was because her tales of her first time encounters seems to all happen at hotels.

I explained that I was in it as I was curious and wanted to actually meet the person behind the virtual profile. Only if the chemistry is right would I then consider having sex. She thought I was just too picky and that my bar was set too high.

Then she asked me if I have attended any orgies or participated in threesomes or bondage recently. She then related her experiences and at that point, I suddenly found myself feeling like a virgin compared to her. She also suggested that I try Caucasian, Japanese and Koren ladies from this site. Huh? Were there really such choices available locally? I MUST have definitely not browsed the profiles thoroughly enough to find such members.

It was drawing late and she had to be home by 11pm. We finished our coffee and I walked her home before driving home. So again it was another sexless night in paradize.

Hmmm... I think I would like to know ladies of other races residing locally... that'll be cool.

__Huntress__ 56M/58F

8/17/2005 1:12 pm

Baby you gotta dip those toes in the pool a little !

rm_FreeLove999 47F
16127 posts
8/17/2005 1:19 pm

... such a gentleman ... i rarely meet people for coffee/drinks ... i hate that "meet in public" shit ... rather just get straight to it

[blog freelove999]

georgina666 37F

8/18/2005 6:36 am

you know what? i think we're in the same boat, i.e. in AdultFriendFinder due to curiosity and the desire to meet the person which the profile so loudly screams "intellectual, smart, attractive" apart from sexual attraction.

i am not that adventurous because i am still stuck in playing my patience game and slowly, more and more men are showing signs of withdrawal and surrender symptoms. i might not be setting the benchmark high, but i have a certain criteria to meet. if not, why bother to meet in a haste, only to leave before the cappucino arrived and without any human communication?!

and i have my "standard operating procedure" to abide to as well...

eternal1969 48M
1634 posts
8/18/2005 9:39 am

Huntress - Guess at the end of the day I'm still an asian at heart and a little uncomfortable in just throwing caution to the wind... but I'm trying to learn to get my toes wet... well maybe just the toe nails

Freelove - I don't know... maybe I'm just not horny enough by nature to get straight into it. Well I wouldn't want to meet some stranger at some hotel room stark naked and realize she doesn't turn me on

Huny - I rest my case on my theory that the gals are having a lot more fun than us guys here

Georg - Yup you read me well. But actually I like to meet up first in order to get the feel of whether I'm comfortable with the person and whether she turns me on. SExiness and turn on factors are a combination of personalty, looks and body of which the latter two are always subjective in nature.

seductiveinblack 33F
14 posts
8/21/2005 6:38 am

FIFTY... woow thats a lot! ive been floating around since about feb and ive only met.. a handful.
FIFTY.. thats like one a day.

eternal1969 48M
1634 posts
8/21/2005 11:13 am

Hmmm seductive... I thought all the women in here were getting such great catchment. Or does this spell just how many Singaporean men are willing for meetups.... hmmm wait that includes me too doesn't it

jazz_in_my_soul 47M
60 posts
8/22/2005 5:09 am

Actually, the numbers are a little "too much" to believe. That translates to a new partner every alternate day.

Actually, if the lady is into group sex etc, it is possible to hit 50 in one month plus. But you need to be in the scene for that.

I would say, in this site, be true to yourself. This site actually offers more than just sex. I think you should realise that by now, as do most bloggers, magazine writers and group participants.

If you want to be picky, that's fine. If it is not sex but friendship that you want, why not? This is a human site for people to meet. I have a feeling you are going to make lots of friends here that will last for a while.

Success is not (always) counted in number of people you sleep with.

eternal1969 48M
1634 posts
8/22/2005 7:32 am

Cheers Jazz - Totally agree with you. I guess I am more into intimate friendship than just raw hard sex. I guess I didn't really click with her as I could sense that I was going to be another statistics under her belt.

rm_goobergoo 44M

9/3/2005 11:16 am

well... 50 isnt really surprising if u do think about it. She's a lady for crying out loud. Surely, she's gonna get more hits than any guy. As for fuggin 'bout half of them? I agree with 'jazz'... the orgy theory does hold a possibility. Anyhoo, i haven't yet met anyone from here in the flesh though i would ofcourse love to. Its the burning curiousity to meet the other behind her profile but i tell ya what... the sex part of the deal can be a lil tricky. Coz i've got thoughts about the possible 'ravaging diseases' package taht comes after an exciting few hours experience (i hate condoms). So it is quite a catch 22 situation. sigh...

Maximus10002005 31M
4 posts
12/23/2005 1:29 am

    Quoting __Huntress__:
    Baby you gotta dip those toes in the pool a little !
hi my name is Richie...i am a virgin... can any1 help me to find a girl or women in Sinagpore willing for sex... i am a new commer in this site and i donot have a credit card or extra cash to apply for this site... so plz any1 can help me to find a girl(only girls)... my mail id is AdultFriendFinder and my no is 93857435

Become a member to create a blog