Anal Sex : Not all that and a bag of chips....  

eqdogett2 41F
69 posts
8/17/2005 4:17 pm

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Anal Sex : Not all that and a bag of chips....

I want all you men to know that this is a very irritating discussion for me because there are alot of men out there that think that since it is ok for the pornos to show the anal side of sex is 'FUN' for women and expect and think that it is fun for all women and not really think this one through.

Here's my philosophy on this whole issue....
If you won't have it done to you, DON'T ask us to do it!!
ASK us before taking it for granted that we like it and make the mistake and put that thing in her ass and she screams and begins to bleed from her recum because you were an asshole and suck it in her and it ripped her guts from her anus. (And YES it DOES HAPPEN!!)

I have had to help repair sexual accidents because a husband or lover was not smart in this issue and didn't know that the colon is a VERY FRAGILE area of the body and it CAN RUPTURE with pressure exerted on it or friction put to it.

MEN: Anal sex can be VERY dangerous and can kill her if you fuck up and hurt her.

Septicemia (or becomming septic in the blood) canbe caused from a rupture of the colon and the fecal matter getting into the peritoneum area of the body (the stomach cavity that holds your guts and everything in place). If that happens, she will get BAD sick and she could in fact die from it if it is not treated immediately.

God gave women a pussy with very strong walls and a very nice muscle called the kegal muscle to help with sex and reproduction and that is what he wanted you to use. If the pussy is not tight enough, there are options to make it tighter:

1. Kegal Muscle exercises can make it to where she feels like a virgin if done regularly and done for a long time.

2. Surgery. There are surgeons out there that will put a few extra stitches in a episiotomy after the vaginal birth of a child. Also, there are a few doctors can fix any vaginal weaknesses or anything with surgery and it makes it good as new.

3. Divorce it and get a tighter pussy. Its an extreme but if you can't make her understand it is too damn loose and she won't try and get it fixed, then that's your last option. I don't suggest you doing this but I know many men who divorced over a tighter piece of ass. But you better be ready to pay the child support and be ready to pay Alimony to her for a LONG Time.

Have Fun and will post the next lesson soon!

BenefitsFriend69 58M/61F

8/17/2005 5:28 pm

Great reading! I can't say I agree with all your stuff, but you definitely know how to articulate. Thanks.

On this one, I agree, and disagree. I've known women who absolutely love anal sex, and actually prefer it to vaginal sex. And they've never been hurt or bled or have had septicemia or any of the nasty clinical things you mention. Perhaps your view is a bit tainted based on your profession and experiences?

The back side has loads of nerve endings and can be a very erotic play place. Different people have different bodies and different tollerances to penetration. I enjoy anal play on me.

If you're not comfortable doing it, obviously, don't do it, and don't tolerate it. Communicate clearly. If the man you're with wants it but is too insensitive and stupid to respect your requests, kick his ass (pun intendend) out the door.

Butt (lol) if you take it easy, and slow, and are sensitive as you go, it can be a lot of fun.

Thanks again, and don't forget to cover your ass!

redmustang91 58M  
8935 posts
8/17/2005 5:48 pm

Some women claim to like anal sex. If not too rough and lubricated it can be fun. Nobody should be forced or hurt to do anything sexually.

thom5055 63M

8/17/2005 6:05 pm

I agree with you that permission should be asked before attempting anal sex - otherwise it is akin to or actual . However, perhaps it is not as seriously dangerous as you make out, albeit more so than vaginal intercourse (afterall, gay men have been doing this for thousands of years, or so I'm told). As it appears you are a medical professional, I do have a few questions that I hope you will be kind enough to answer. So you know, I do fantasize about meeting a lady who does anal sex, and perhaps even enjoys it rather than looking upon it as an obnoxious task, and if I do, wish to do everything possible to make it as safe and enjoyable an experience as it can be. That said, do you have any tips on how to make it enjoyable for her, other than lots of water based lubrication, slowly and gently relaxing the spinctor muscles, and being gentle during intercourse? Also, is it true that some women orgasam from anal intercourse alone?

Thank you for your interesting post, and I hope to hear from you soon.

Assman6519 54M

8/17/2005 7:08 pm

You make it sound horrible. I agree it is horrible though. One of my friends wife had to be taken to ER because of it. However i still find it fascinating and may be try some day.

nakednightswimme 42F

8/18/2005 5:22 am

I've got to agree with cdshelley, it can feel insanely wonderful, some of all time best orgasms, but you do have to be careful, gentle as first, work it in slowly, lots and lots of lube, and the girl has to be relaxed, once I'm there though I really really like it, and can take it almost as hard as anyone could want. And my first experience with wasn't easy or awesome, but I tried it out a couple times with a very careful experienced person and found that I just love it and am sooooo glad I didn't just decided to give it up after the first time.

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