Love vs In Love  

elbman 42M
1141 posts
4/10/2006 8:02 pm

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4/21/2006 2:05 am

Love vs In Love

Ever had to explain to someone you love that you're not in love with them?


southrnpeach333 51F

4/10/2006 8:09 pm

My theme song these days.


elbman replies on 4/11/2006 3:12 pm:
With a country western theme....

frbnkslady 49F
6183 posts
4/10/2006 8:38 pm

Yes... and it sucks. One of the hardest things to do. I love you, but I am not IN love with you. And have had it said to me, which sucks worse. T

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elbman replies on 4/11/2006 3:13 pm:
The role has never been reversed...but it sucks none the less.

lovemetouchme5 52F
2102 posts
4/10/2006 10:19 pm

My husband said it to me a couple of weeks ago. It was very hard to hear, but deep down, I was feeling the same way about him.


elbman replies on 4/11/2006 3:14 pm:
I guess that's the best case scanrio....both parties having basically the same feelings.

caressmewell 54F

4/11/2006 6:00 am

I've said it, I've had it said to me. I will be saying it again soon...


elbman replies on 4/11/2006 3:14 pm:
Poor Napolean....he's been hearing that alot lately...

redlipsprincess
(Princess Lips)
52F

4/11/2006 7:29 am

been on both sides of that sharp fence...

TTFN


elbman replies on 4/11/2006 3:15 pm:
Makes you just want to throw yourself on it.

sassybelle21 33F  
13313 posts
4/11/2006 7:36 am

Yes and it's hard eventhough I try to be honest. Some people don't understand the differences.


elbman replies on 4/11/2006 3:16 pm:
Some people don't want to understand...they're more in love with the idea of love than the person.

aascrompn 43M
6444 posts
4/11/2006 12:19 pm

I've never had to say that, no... I've heard it a lot!! However, yes, I'm still in love w/ you. Would you stop worrying?


elbman replies on 4/11/2006 3:17 pm:
I didn't know you read that...disregard my comment above...she'll tell you soon enough

And stop starring at me already.....or I'll post a certain pic of you playing dress up in all your glory...

saddletrampsk 55F

4/11/2006 3:07 pm

Ummm..I only love one man..for the last 21 yrs..all the rest are strictly sex and friendship..so I have never had to deal with the issue you are dealing with


elbman replies on 4/11/2006 3:18 pm:
Lucky you to have found him....too bad you have to go to the states for real fun...

caressmewell 54F

4/11/2006 3:29 pm

elbman replies on 4/11/2006 3:14 pm:
Poor Napolean....he's been hearing that alot lately...



JustaSeeker 107F

4/11/2006 4:10 pm

Yes, why do you think I'm here?


elbman replies on 4/11/2006 7:38 pm:
Cause you want me....

womanoirish 55F

4/12/2006 11:54 pm

Yes.


aascrompn 43M
6444 posts
4/13/2006 10:49 am

    Quoting caressmewell:
    I've said it, I've had it said to me. I will be saying it again soon...
What's funny is that I never even caught Caress saying that!


caressmewell 54F

4/13/2006 12:12 pm

    Quoting aascrompn:
    What's funny is that I never even caught Caress saying that!
You have to listen to hear...no?


elbman replies on 4/13/2006 1:39 pm:
You have to hear to listen......but you you can hear without LISTENING......

PrincessKarma 44F
6188 posts
4/20/2006 10:12 pm

Yes... just a few days ago and it sucketh most egregiously.

The Big Bang was the mother of all orgasms.PrincessKarma


elbman replies on 4/21/2006 2:07 am:
That pretty much seems to be ther overall sentiment from most, not the timing but the feeling.

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