SOULMATE  

GeeseAnentLavas 57F
87 posts
2/15/2006 9:53 am

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SOULMATE


OH ME OH MY!
MY FINGERS ARE CROSSED,
I SAY A LITTLE PRAYER ON THE LONG SLEEPNESS NIGHTS,
WHEN I FINALLY DO GET SOME GOOD SLEEP, HAVE FANTASIZED ABOUT,
WOULD RATHER SLEEP ON A COUCH THEN SOLO IN BED,
EVERYDAY I STAY HOPEFULL,
TOO MANY DAYS / NIGHTS THE LONELYNESS HAD BROUGHT ME TO TEARS,
KNOW WHERE EXACTLY NOT TO LOOK FOR ONE,
MY LIFES DESIRES,
NOT MY LIFES MISSION,
HOPELESS ROMANTIC,

MY HEART ACHED AND AN OVER-ALL SADNESS LOOMED OVER ME WHEN I READ THIS
WASHINGTON (AFP) Yahoo news
Forty-three percent of adult Americans, or 87 million people, describe themselves as single -- but only 16 percent are looking for love, the survey by the Pew Internet and American Life Project found. Fifty-five percent of US singles say they have no interest in looking for a romantic partner. That feeling is especially pronounced among women, or those who have been divorced or widowed. Surprisingly, and despite the dominance of dating images in popular culture, younger singles aged between 18-29 seem to be able to take romance or leave it: 51 percent said they were not in the market for a soulmate.The survey also lifts the lid on the barren dating scene even for those Americans singles that are playing the field. Thirty-six percent of those "active" on the dating scene said they had not had a date in three months, 13 percent had one. Twenty-two percent had been on between two and four dates, while a lucky quarter had been on five or more. Where is the best place to meet a partner? : according to the survey, which sampled Internet users on the question, 38 percent of those in committed relationships hooked up at work or school. A third met through family and friends, and 13 percent met their match at a nightclub, bar or café. Surprisingly, given the proliferation of online dating agencies and matchmakers, only three percent of happy couples who are also online met through the Internet. The study, part of larger research on online matchmaking yet to be published, was conducted late last year.
WHAT THE HELL ARE WRONG PEOPLE? ISNT IT EVIDENT TOO MUCH WAR, TOO MUCH HATE IN THIS WORLD? FAMILY VALUES TURNING TO SHIT? DO YOU KNOW WHAT LOVE IS? BEEN IN LOVE? BEEN HURT BY A BAD LOVE? EVER EXPERIENCE LOVE? FEEL INSECURE OR UNWORTHY TO LOVE…….WHAT I JUST DONY UNDERSTAND IT?
I LIKE MYSELF AND YES I GUESS I COULD ALSO SOMEWHAT SAY LOVE MYSELF TOO, I FIND MY LONELYNESS GROWINGY WANTS / NEEDS / DESIRES STIFFELING. I BELIEVE THE OVER-ALL HEALTH OF ALL MAN KIND WILL SUFFER NEEDLESLY.IF YOU THE PEOPLE AND I AS WELL CARE LESS FOR OTHERS AND GREEDLY SEEK SELF SATISFICATION WE WILL BE DOOMED. GOOD THINGS DON’T COME EASY, BAD THINGS SEEMS TO NEVER STOP. THE REWARDS ARE SO VERY PRECIOUS WHEN YOU’RE HEART MIND AND SOUL HAS WORKED FOR SOMETHING ACHIEVED. I WANT TO BELIEVE IN SOMEONE. I WANT THEM TO BELIEVE IN ME. EVERYTHING GOOD NO MATTER HOW HARD WORKED GIVEN THEM AND RECEIVED BACK 10 FOLD…..FEEDING EACH OTHER BACK AND FORTH. I BELIEVE MAN IS NOT WHOLE WITH OUT A WOMAN AND WOMAN WITHOUT A MANS THE SAME. FIGHT FOR HONOR, DEVOTION, UNITY…..PLEASE LETS ALL STOP THE MADNESS. START TO CARE AGAIN. IF ANY OF THE ABOVE PERCENTAGES ARE TRUE, I BEING A SINGLE PARENT HAVE A LESSOR CHANCE? WELL YES I GUESS I CAN SCRATCH THE BARS AND NIGHTCLUBS…GOOD PARENTS ARE PARENTING NOT HANGING OUT THERE! I’M PARENTING NOT OUT PLAYING THE FIELD. MY SINGLE LIFE I FIND LONELY. MY RESPONSIBLITIES TO MY CHILD ARE AN HONOR AND REWARDING. THAT MAKES ME MORE VALUABLE. HOWEVER THE ODDS ARE THE ODDS WILL NEVER BE HIGHER IN MY MIND HEART AND SOUL AND I REALIZE HOW MUCH MORE MY BELIEF IN MAN AND THE STRENGTH THE MAN NEEDS.

IM HERE AND WHAT I WANT STILL HAVNT CHANGED.

SINCERELY,
SINDY
SINCERELY, SINDY

hopelesslibra 56M

2/23/2006 4:20 pm

do not be troubled by all of the hate in this world,bad news,statictics,or what other people think. keep your eye on what you want. all the rest is just bullshit.


rm_pj78238 61M
1 post
7/20/2006 8:33 am

Sindy,
I think that you are living in the perfect area, close to several metro areas (Austin, New Braunsfels and San Antonio). There is a lot of activities to keep your son and you busy without having to resort to having your son be a 'latch key child'. The communities that you live near are wholesome, faith based and family oriented.
I know that as a single parent you worry about what affects you, your son and family values. But, it is not like in the city where you have so very much violence, people living practically on top of each other, people having NOTHING. Where you can find bars, drugs and whatever else you want on practically every corner.
Thank the good Lord above for what you have. I know that you are a good person who really is trying to do her best to raise her son properly. Country living is great, gives kids a better view on life.
Do not worry, while the rest of the world is going crazy, you have a great and peaceful hiding place away from the crazies in the rest of the world where you are at.


rm_n2mint14u 42M

8/9/2006 4:53 am

I prefer to think of myself as a hopeful romantic...incredible article! Thanks for posting!!


rm_klitlicker53 64M
12 posts
9/10/2006 7:37 pm

Yes, Sindy,
The responsibilities of parenting are time consuming and never ending.I spend alot of time with my kids since being divoriced.The upside I would say. I get to spend more individual time with them to enjoy the things that we like to do.I feel a closer connection to them than when I was married. The rewards outweigh the disadvantage and I wouldn't trade it for anything.I have always felt that when you have kids you have to change your hopes and plans and look out for the greater good. You now have a responsibility to a young life. To mold and instill the proper beliefs.That's how to change the world of tommorrow. You are a bright and caring person and I'm sure have touched many lives.


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