Wake up or you will spend the rest of your life alone or angry.  

ecsima 48M
1 posts
3/7/2006 8:35 pm

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3/15/2006 1:39 am

Wake up or you will spend the rest of your life alone or angry.

First of all, this is not for the faint of heart. If you disagree with what I have to say send me a reply. All comments will be answered in due time. I would like to address those so called men that messed things up for the rest of us. If you hadn't used these women as a way to get out of your mother's house there wouldn't be so many JADED women out here. You know exactly what I'm talking about. The easiest thing to do is tell the truth, but you could not do it. If all you're looking for is sex just tell her that. There are plenty of women out here that will sex you without a second thought. Don't say I love you to a woman unless you mean it. And as for the woman beaters wake up, since OJ the cops are waiting to lock you up. If she is still living with her parents then maybe you should leave her to the younger guys. The worst thing in the world is a guy that dates a girl half his age because older women are just too smart to fall for his weak ass games. If you don't know how to talk to a WOMAN don't read a book on the subject, because the scares that you leave will have to be addressed by the next guy that comes along. There are a lot of women that were hurt as teenagers that will never recover. That brings me to the real reason for this blog; all of these JADED women out here. Forgive and forget. Life is too short to carry all that baggage from one relationship too the next. If Joe Numbskull hurt you leave that stuff with him. The apply that too the next man you meet. All men aren’t that guy. Just because you he didn't call you back after a one night stand don’t mean that something is wrong with you it just means that maybe he isn't interested in being tied down. Enjoy each person for who THEY are, not for what you want them to be. I can't tell you how many times I tried to open the door for a woman only to hear her comment on how I should front if I'm not going to always open her door. The only thing I can think of is how in the hell does she know if I'm going to open her door next week or not. If she can tell the future why doesn't she use her gift to pick the next winning lottery number or something? Many a relationship is ruined by pre-judging. Let the moment be just that the moment. You will have plenty of time to see where a person is coming from. Don't look for motives just let things happen. Now tell me what you think.

shiningstar1966 51F
1 post
3/13/2006 8:38 pm

Its nice to see a guy speak his mind for a change. Not enough guys have the heart to be honest. I have a friend that will lie through his teeth to gain anything from a woman. And he is so miserable on the inside. He spends many nights alone and confused.

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