Odd Thing Happened  

duststormdiva 52F
7253 posts
2/1/2006 1:11 am

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Odd Thing Happened

A few weeks back I was planning on meeting someone from AdultFriendFinder. He is SINGLE. Our relationship was growing strong and we both were looking forward to meeting. Then about a week before we were planning on meeting I told him about my married lover. I thought I had told him before, I mean it's no secret I blog about it. Apparantly, I didn't tell him. This was an issue. To make a long story short, he decided that it was best I build my relationship with this married man and he backed out.

Well, it had been three weeks to a month since I talked to him and he called me tonight. It was great to hear his voice. I have missed him. He wants to meet in a couple of weeks.

Let's see where this goes. I am not sure I know how to date a single man. LOL

Inspirational Thought

Friendship is the only cement that will ever hold the world together.
Source: Anonymous



DustStormDiva



Sorceror07 55M

2/1/2006 11:35 am

excellent! i hope it goes purrrrrfeckt for you

...That which does not kill me merely pisses me off!...


kyplowboy22 63M

2/1/2006 12:14 pm

It will go where it is supposed to, kid as long as you take it there. Later

kpb


MyRealLoverOne 47M

2/1/2006 12:21 pm

Sounds like you need to hang with Real Lover!


WhiffAminoNames 53M
145 posts
2/1/2006 12:30 pm

What changed his mind?

If standard male tactics apply, he ran out of other prospects and decided his previous stance needed to be re-evaluated.

Please don't take that as a put-down toward you or his interest in you. Us guys aren't usually all that hard to figure out.

Good luck with this one
Sailor


duststormdiva 52F
6854 posts
2/1/2006 1:59 pm

    Quoting Sorceror07:
    excellent! i hope it goes purrrrrfeckt for you
I'd like to see something develop from it, even if only a great friendship.

DustStormDiva


duststormdiva 52F
6854 posts
2/1/2006 2:00 pm

    Quoting kyplowboy22:
    It will go where it is supposed to, kid as long as you take it there. Later

    kpb
But, but... where do I want to take it?

DustStormDiva


duststormdiva 52F
6854 posts
2/1/2006 2:00 pm

Absolutely, and I would in a heart beat!

DustStormDiva


duststormdiva 52F
6854 posts
2/1/2006 2:06 pm

    Quoting WhiffAminoNames:
    What changed his mind?

    If standard male tactics apply, he ran out of other prospects and decided his previous stance needed to be re-evaluated.

    Please don't take that as a put-down toward you or his interest in you. Us guys aren't usually all that hard to figure out.

    Good luck with this one
    Sailor
I don't know what changed his mind. I just know that when we were talking on a regular basis, it was everyday and we had awesome conversations. I asked him if he was seeing others or if he had met anyone, he said no. Honestly, I believe him. Knowing him there probably were not any other prospects because he is a one woman man all the way.

I like to think he missed me! *grin*

DustStormDiva


duststormdiva 52F
6854 posts
2/1/2006 2:12 pm

    Quoting sweetneeds2:
    You will figure it out.......he came back to you...that, in my opinion, is a good sign!!! You deserve it ....I hope it goes VERY WELL!! He is a lucky man!! ~Sweet~
He did come back and I took that as a great sign. Well, I don't know how lucky he is, but I know we have already developed a good friendship. I'd like to see the friendship grow stronger.

DustStormDiva


MrNuttz05 50M

2/1/2006 2:13 pm

Damn It, Duststormdiva! WTF? Who am I going to date now when I get to Arizona... YOU are sooooo selfish!


micahbiguns 52M

2/1/2006 3:53 pm

Wishing you the very best! You deserve to have 100% of your lovers heart time and attention hopefully this works if you want it to


duststormdiva 52F
6854 posts
2/1/2006 4:25 pm

    Quoting MrNuttz05:
    Damn It, Duststormdiva! WTF? Who am I going to date now when I get to Arizona... YOU are sooooo selfish!
Well, that's a great invitation! I'd be glad to date you.

DustStormDiva


TTigerAtty 63M

2/1/2006 5:07 pm

Good luck Dusty!


duststormdiva 52F
6854 posts
2/1/2006 5:50 pm

    Quoting micahbiguns:
    Wishing you the very best! You deserve to have 100% of your lovers heart time and attention hopefully this works if you want it to
ooOooooOOO I love the new photo! Yes, i do deserve more than I have been allowing myself lately.

DustStormDiva


docdirk 49M

2/1/2006 5:50 pm

Phewwww. For a moment there, I thought I was going to have to do something horrible, something insideous, something unspeakable - get married - in order to date you! LOL!!!!

(Well, that and travel about 3K miles.)

Have fun sweety, and give us details!

Ah, Its you again, Your Angel Feathers and your Blood Stains...


_Safira 55F
11260 posts
2/1/2006 6:47 pm

YEAH, My Star!!! I'm so excited for you. Can we say "online shopping buddy???"

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duststormdiva 52F
6854 posts
2/1/2006 6:51 pm

Thanks!

DustStormDiva


duststormdiva 52F
6854 posts
2/1/2006 6:52 pm

    Quoting docdirk:
    Phewwww. For a moment there, I thought I was going to have to do something horrible, something insideous, something unspeakable - get married - in order to date you! LOL!!!!

    (Well, that and travel about 3K miles.)

    Have fun sweety, and give us details!
Travel the 3K miles, dear, it will be worth it!

DustStormDiva


rm_rodknocker 53M
2 posts
2/1/2006 7:37 pm

I have read some of your comments, and it seems that you are a very careing and kind person who is alyays looking out for the very best for your childern and for other the people in your life. However it seems,that for your selfyou do not, why would you want to be or spend time with someone who cannot give all of themselves to you.I dont think that you would want that for your kids, why would you want that for yourself. we are only here for a very short time, and we all deserve the very best that we can give one another.


goldinboy2 61M

2/1/2006 7:46 pm

Hey never count out the "single guy" at least he's the only one you will have to answer to.


duststormdiva 52F
6854 posts
2/1/2006 8:08 pm

    Quoting _Safira:
    YEAH, My Star!!! I'm so excited for you. Can we say "online shopping buddy???"
Thanks! Shopping? Did someone say shopping? Speaking of which I blogged about what I bought today.

DustStormDiva


keithcancook 61M
18125 posts
2/1/2006 8:53 pm

I was anonymous once.


oldman1776 80M
3164 posts
2/1/2006 9:19 pm

hope things go good for you dear.


duststormdiva 52F
6854 posts
2/2/2006 5:41 am

    Quoting rm_rodknocker:
    I have read some of your comments, and it seems that you are a very careing and kind person who is alyays looking out for the very best for your childern and for other the people in your life. However it seems,that for your selfyou do not, why would you want to be or spend time with someone who cannot give all of themselves to you.I dont think that you would want that for your kids, why would you want that for yourself. we are only here for a very short time, and we all deserve the very best that we can give one another.
You make a great point and have said some kind things about me. I started seeing married men because I knew my heart was protected and I could not allow myself to fall for them. I did discover that I can fall for them just as well.

DustStormDiva


duststormdiva 52F
6854 posts
2/2/2006 5:43 am

    Quoting goldinboy2:
    Hey never count out the "single guy" at least he's the only one you will have to answer to.
I don't have to answer to any of them. Until there is a commitment, there won't ever be an expectation of anyone answering to another. Even then, if respect is there and shown, then there should be no answering to be doing.

DustStormDiva


duststormdiva 52F
6854 posts
2/2/2006 5:44 am

    Quoting BigGirlzRSweet:
    Good luck on your date with the single dude... LOL! They aren't all that different from the married ones, except that they are freer to build a relationship in ways that married men aren't. You might find him a refreshing change of pace.
I am looking forward to the change of pace.

DustStormDiva


duststormdiva 52F
6854 posts
2/2/2006 5:45 am

Came out of anonymity I see.

DustStormDiva


duststormdiva 52F
6854 posts
2/2/2006 5:46 am

    Quoting oldman1776:
    hope things go good for you dear.
Thank you, love!

DustStormDiva


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