frustration and jealousy  

drrtgrrl79 44M/38F
3 posts
7/12/2005 9:23 am

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frustration and jealousy

as i wrote in my profile, we are soo new at all of this. I really like the idea of my boyfriend and I being a close enough couple to add an extra girl in the mix, since we both like girls and yet not feel it would take away from our everyday relationship, maybe even strengthen it with trust. Sex is a big part of us, and has just come out with us since last christmas. But how do you get over the jelousy. I find it so hot thinking of him playing with another girl, with me ofcourse. But then i also get jealous. I want to be the only girl he desires, but that is not human nature, things just dont happen like that. He is the only man i want to have sex with, to be inside me. I wish he felt the same. But I know his male tendencies, he wants to feel the newness. But I feel I will never get so open as to let him have sex with another girl. Is this wrong, selfish. As I said maybe in five years, we are married and happy and the sex is still great. I still think I am a pretty cool chic to even try this out.

rm_talldarkavg1 106M
10172 posts
7/12/2005 10:26 am

If it is indeed a mutual decision you will both be happy. If you are doing what you think he wants you to do...the heartaches are yet to begin.

Welcome to BlogLand by the way.

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TopFisher 64M

7/12/2005 2:02 pm

Tall Dark said it as best it can be said.

It sounds like you two are not ready for such in the same bed.

Ana_6973 44F

7/12/2005 2:14 pm

Check out the book "Ethical Slut". They address jealousy issues in open relationships. It is actually a great book to read if you are exploring an open lifestyle.

~~"I can scream as loud as your last one, but I can't claim innocence."~~

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