LIGHTS OFF OR ON????hmmmmm....  

dream_girl1000 51F
92 posts
7/6/2005 5:25 pm

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7/20/2006 10:11 am

LIGHTS OFF OR ON????hmmmmm....


heres my new blogs...hope u will have time to read it...
"Most women prefer sex with the lights out--they cant bear to see a man enjoying himself...
Men like sex with the lights on---so they can get the woman's name right...^^
.....men are VISUAL when it comes to sex
women....love words and Feelings....
How about you???which you prefer Lights on or off?????and tell us why....

Steely_xxx 45M

7/7/2005 2:21 am

I personally don't like either. I Like to have the lights dimmed or use candles. It softens the skin tone and makes our bodies more sensual and appealing. I don't agree with you though, I think that visual stimulation is equal for both sexes, maybe in a different way, like for example setting the mood with candels or dimmed lights.


happydays4u05 50M

7/7/2005 4:28 am

Lights on thats if I'm given a choice ! Why because I like to see the response from my words and actions on my partners face and body
you say Most women prefer sex with the lights out--they cant bear to see a man enjoying himself... MAYBE they like lights out so there men can't see how much they enjoy sex


rm_talldarkavg1 106M
10172 posts
7/7/2005 7:12 am

Lights on has its advantages from the male visual perspective. However, lights off are great for the fantasy aspect and relying upon the other senses to prevail.

In my case, women demand I turn the lights off. And wear a bag over my head. Or, in some cases, wear a Brad Pitt mask.

[blog talldarkavg1]


rm_the_taker 45M
60 posts
7/7/2005 9:21 am

At least some candles, it is easy to mistake a whip for a riding crop in the dark...


dream_girl1000 51F

7/7/2005 11:32 am

lol...nice comments....
hmmm...wearing brad pitt mask???u dont need it tdk1....


gemini0157 60M
6842 posts
7/7/2005 12:05 pm

Natural light or candlelight is best. Darkness leads me to believe that one or the other won't like what they might see.... or what the other might see.. so I would probably never be with a girl that wants the lights out. She would either be... "not into me"... ashamed her own self image.... or feeling like she is doing something improper. Do you really think women don't like to see their partner being pleased.... Does that apply to you? (just curious) I have never experienced that....? I believe it's still legal to use all or more than one sense while having sex.... ha... just kidding


dream_girl1000 51F

7/7/2005 5:04 pm

gemini...lol...my first statement is just a joke...the next staement is REAL...i love with scented candlelight...romantic background music...and the redwine or cold beer on the table ...so after making love..im sure ..both of us needs some *FEW breaks...


raptor880 40M

7/7/2005 5:58 pm

I find wearing a torch on your head helps when exploring, that way the lights can stay of satisfying the good lady and you can still see what you are doing.Everyones happy then.


super2head 43M
4 posts
7/11/2005 7:41 pm

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rm_Jme681000 46M
29 posts
7/14/2005 3:16 am

on off not really concerned with the light... however it's nice to see who you are sticking it in...being able to see there expression


dream_girl1000 51F

7/14/2005 4:20 pm

Jme..youre right!!!thanks for posting your comment....happy weekend.....


cajunpet 71M
1185 posts
7/16/2005 3:02 pm

I like making love in the natural light and the glow of sented candles and incense with listening to love songs in and out of the bedroom. Using all the senses creates a great pleasure while making love. All of my lovers have enjoyed this also, once they experienced it.

Hugs...
Take care.
Keep On Blogging!!!! Have a great day.

Cajun Pet


dream_girl1000 51F

7/17/2005 3:40 am

hello cajunpet..
thanks for your private emails to me....your poems....wow...so deep and full of passions...

im so glad to met you...and to know you more....


rm_ozora99 54M
2 posts
8/5/2005 2:21 am

lights on!


nite19777 41F
2 posts
3/29/2006 8:06 pm

HI THERE.. I WOULD LIKE TO HAVE LIGHTS OFF WHEN HAVING SEX.. IT WILL MAKE MY PARTNER WANT ME MORE AND THE GROANING AND MOANING FROM HIM REALLY TURNS ME ON IN THE DARK..

HOWEVER AT TIMES I PREFER TO HAVE LIGHTS ON WHEN HAVING SEX ESPECIALLY WHEN YOU GIVE ORAL.. AT LEAST YOU KNOW THAT YOU ARE DOING THE RIGHT THING..


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