Sex and the the Older Man ..okay I am not that old  

don90402 60M
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7/7/2006 8:37 am

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7/17/2006 11:45 am

Sex and the the Older Man ..okay I am not that old

It just dawned on me, that chatting about my sexual exploits might keep me from meeting a nice girl with freckles, a nice smile and a grand sense of humor and style. It was an epiphany .... a moment of clarity that struck me like lightning.

Then ...all senses came back to me. The nice girl that is wanted and desired by me, would not have an issue with me sharing my experiences with all of you. She would be open-minded and perhaps herself a bit of a exhibitionist / voyeur combination.

Looking back at how often my dick gets sucked, my balls get licked and fucked. It amazes me how much sex is a part of my life. A woman, who knows me (we actually had an internet date and became friends )called me a player a few nights ago.

She suggested that my activities and my search for a partner were covering up my true desire to find a lover / monogamous relationship. Well the truth is, as told to her is that my relationship with a partner / lover would not be monogamous in a traditional sense.

My partner / lover would have the flexibility and would be encouraged to have whomever she pleased. Finding her own sexual balance would be my goal and dream for her. So in the truly traditional sense of the word, we would not be a monogamous couple ... but we would be committed in a relationship of our own understanding and desire.

Swinging was a big part of my life. Today, things have changed in the lifestyle and it seems (at least to me) to be about how many women a guy can fuck in one night, truly ego driven not sexually driven. For me swinging meant a connection amongst a group of people. Almost an extended family (minus the incest).

That is missed, by me. The touching and teasing by other female partners at the club or party. The desire to fuck someone, yet not finding the time or opportunity during the evening because something else came around (a conversation, chance meeting, someone asking for help fucking his partner). The idea, that you would see her again at the next party is truly stimulating and used to keep me aroused, at least mentally for several days. My dick would get hard, just thinking about a woman's touch on my back, or her kiss on my lips ....

Today, as an older guy who has fucked many different women in all sizes (yes including anorexic and BBBBBW) shapes (A cups <---my favorite to DD or F cups) and shades of color (including fair maidens with freckles) My desire to fuck is superseded by the connection that is made between me and my partner. Over the last week, it has become more apparent that the connection, chemistry, desire is far more important than the pussy is ... don't get me wrong ... Pussy is always good... it just seems better when you know that you will get to fuck it again .... or at least the thought you might have it again ....
CaliforniaSwinger


rm_Jezdatip 65F
1335 posts
7/12/2006 12:51 am

High Five to you CaliforniaSwinger..Great adventures in the past have taken the back burner to something more intense..Now you are moving to another level of Sexual satisfaction..You are connecting with more than a wet pussy when you fuck..Never say never..


don90402 60M

7/12/2006 12:23 pm

    Quoting rm_Jezdatip:
    High Five to you CaliforniaSwinger..Great adventures in the past have taken the back burner to something more intense..Now you are moving to another level of Sexual satisfaction..You are connecting with more than a wet pussy when you fuck..Never say never..
Thanks Jez...

It is amazing that the sweetness of a pussy ...is better on a second and third taste...well, at least for me...


rm_Jezdatip 65F
1335 posts
7/17/2006 1:19 am

Have you noticed that after you've been in a sweet pussy a few times ( 3 or 4), you find yourself seeking the intoxicting sparks of fresh passion again. There seems to something intriguing about the chase, capture and devouring of a fresh pussy . Does it ever end? Just curious about how long a sweet pussy can keep you mesmerized.


don90402 60M

7/17/2006 11:45 am

    Quoting rm_Jezdatip:
    Have you noticed that after you've been in a sweet pussy a few times ( 3 or 4), you find yourself seeking the intoxicting sparks of fresh passion again. There seems to something intriguing about the chase, capture and devouring of a fresh pussy . Does it ever end? Just curious about how long a sweet pussy can keep you mesmerized.
Well, sweet pussy has kept me in good stead for months, even years. \

It really seem to be the other stuff inlife, Chaos, selfishness, vanity and even family memebers..lol ...

Wished I could find a balanced woman, who is low key, sensual and also very much in tune to her body ....


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