Last attempt to find someone online.  

DollsDingySlate 49M
15 posts
8/22/2006 3:26 pm

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Last attempt to find someone online.

Well, here I am now at AdultFriendFinder! Tried using craigslist and Ashley Madison sites to find an mistress, but didn't have much luck. After looking through this site a bit, not feeling overly optimistic here either.

Is it possible to find a woman online who is also looking for a monogomous, discreet affair? I seemed to have a couple promising leads on the other sites. Women who contacted me first and seemed to get more engaged as we chatted frequently over IM. Shared photos which seemed to bring another level of intensity, but then when it came time to meet- they disappeared. I'm assuming these were cases of cold feet which is fine, but very surprised the women didn't have the courtesy to just tell me they were backing out.

Also seems like there are lots of people pursuing multiple, random hookups. While I'm sure that is great for most people, I have been amazed there are not more woman also interested in semi-long term affair.

Gave kind of a half-hearted amount of work into my profile here as I was pretty pessimistic from the start. Guess photos help tremendously, but obviously I'm not going to throw up a photo on a site like this where my wife or anyone else she knows could spot me. Maybe I should just look for a married co-worker who looks lonely...

Hydragenias 57F

8/22/2006 4:34 pm

Welcome to the Blogs!!! stop by mine and say hi sometime!


Hope you find what you're looking for!

lil_nympho2 36F

8/22/2006 4:51 pm

I'll give you my take on why you may not be having as much like as you'd like. Your married simple as that. Most people don’t want to get involved with someone who is married. Everyone here is looking for no strings fun but that still doesn’t stop people from forming attachments. It’s impossible to expect someone you share your body with to not have some feelings for you at some point. Even if you find a woman who is already married and understands the risks.

DollsDingySlate replies on 8/25/2006 1:25 pm:
Thanks for the response, but based on the number of married people on this site it seems that lots of married people must be hooking up. Also doesn't seem like everyone is looking for "no strings fun" as you put it. While a large portion of the population here certainly falls into that category, from members' own profiles there appears to be lots of people looking for more than just a jump in the sack.

Regardless, thanks for taking the time to read and share your thoughts. Hope your own search is going well. Enjoy the "no-strings fun"

tracy_de_lacy 106F
9268 posts
8/26/2006 4:42 pm

you should join some groups and find out about meets in your area. It wont happen overnight

Bye everyone, it was a blast

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