Day 18  

dicegrrl 40F
146 posts
7/18/2005 7:50 pm

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Day 18

Today is day 18 of my adventure (so called) on AdultFriendFinder. I have been contacted by several men, some I'm interested in some I'm not. But mostly I'm confused. Why are these men contacting me if I don't fill their requirements? Or the requirements of common sense, come on if you're older than my father (52) why would I want to sleep with you?

Of course then you get the ones that insult your intelligence. I love responding to those. Do you think I can't see past your reverse pyschology and flattery?

Then there is the just plain raunchy ones, yes I know this is a sex site and that's what I'm here for but hey, at least try and charm me ok?

My personal favorite is the "Let's chat/Just have fun" line. Ok,I'm game. Chatting-consists of "Hi, how are you?" When I try to direct or lead the conversation I get no response or just "lol" or a smilie. So I go into blunt mode, "If you want a piece of action you do have to cooperate" Which is met with confusion. What's so difficult to understand that when someone is chatting with you, you need to respond?! Ok, new tactic..."Would you like to meet sometime?" Answer: "For what?"

For what? For what? Umm SEX! What else are we here for? It's been made obvious that you aren't interested in me, which is fine, but at least be honest! I have no problem with an all out sex fest. Come on people, just show a little backbone and a small kernel of honesty. That's why I came here, we all know what we want so why is it so hard to get?

Fitasfook 48M

7/19/2005 8:41 am

Well said that girl!.....thoroughly enjoyable rant!, I like to think I don't fall into that category.....well- I know I don't. Maybe it's time there was some sort of mental evaluation questionaire on the site which would enable us all, and particularly the girls- to see that the site had 'flagged' these people as idiots, then we could just check the box marked 'Not looking for idiots' in the cupid preference.......think of the amount of avoidable email traffic it would save!.....good luck anyway ;0)..p.s, apologies for the pic it doesn't really fit with what I just said, at least it show's Im thinking with my head.....then again....!

rm_bigdog6927 49M/45F
2 posts
7/21/2005 1:50 pm

HAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHA! I had already responded before I read your blog, very funny. I wish you good luck because, quite honestly, we are all fucking idiots!

afinder4u 62M

7/22/2005 7:55 am

The Great KONACK predicts.... Day 23 may be your day!!!
You may want to revisit your age objections... I belive in the next few years you will see --- some men (like fine Scotch or Wine) benefit with ageing...

afinder4u 62M

7/22/2005 7:57 am

Hey by the way... any good places to eat in Raymore??

dicegrrl 40F

7/23/2005 11:54 am

I agree that as I get older so will my parteners however I'm not even 30 so I think I am allowed to be a little picky, eh? That being said, my world was rocked by a lover who was quite a bit older than me but I was 18 and he was 31 so it's not like he was old!

There really isn't anything unique in Raymore that you can't find around KC. My favorite is O'Charley's.

overworkedloon 57M
400 posts
7/23/2005 2:47 pm

The best thing about Raymore is it's not Peculiar. Damn, I just realized, in my quest to make a very inside joke I passed up an opportunity to use a cheap pick up line like "The best thing about Raymore is you."

dicegrrl 40F

7/24/2005 12:42 am

Wow, and to think that was the line I've been waiting for!

dicegrrl 40F

7/24/2005 12:55 am

BTW: Day 23 was not my day. I was accosted by some strange man who didn't even have the guts to email me first and act interested. He just started chatting with me on YIM. I was bored and decided to play along but he immediately wanted "to see more of my body". Ummm, does anyone know the number of the looney bin? Are you serious? See more of my body! Only if you like em chubby hon! Sheesh.....

overworkedloon 57M
400 posts
7/24/2005 9:36 am

The story of my life...I always just miss.

And the problem with chubby is?

ScoobyDooby1970 47M

7/24/2005 12:46 pm

There's absolutely nothing wrong in being picky. I've got a possible answer for those that are contacting you if you don't fit their requirements. Either like you say they are loonies, or they are desperate *lol*

Like you, I too have age ranges. There are problems with both too old and too young.

You are at least luckier than me. I've had nooone contact me yet, so I hopefully I'll have your problems at some point *heh*

I hope you have more luck soon.

afinder4u 62M

7/25/2005 1:59 pm

WELL, I guess KONACK is need of a tune up... or maybe he too is just getting old... I was looking for u on the 23rd... guess u just didn't look back...

phatgj 49M

8/6/2005 10:36 pm

You seem somewhat synical, do you need a big hug? J

jcobb114 39M

8/8/2005 11:02 am

this read head is very hot exspecially with those 42DD tits

Jamaican_12 47M

8/12/2005 2:24 am

I sent you an email before I read you blog. As said before in a posted comment "we're all idiots", No we're not some of us can be honest. But it can also be a stereotypical thing, Because although my comments can be viewed as the type of bullshit flattery, or reverse pyschology I'm too far away to be anything other than honest with you.

horndad4 49M
2 posts
8/19/2005 10:43 am

Dicegrrl -

SO - I am not sure what day it is in your experiment, but I loved your rant, I am new to this.

And I hope you contact me.

dicegrrl 40F

8/19/2005 2:09 pm

Thanks for the comment horndad but I will never ever sleep with a married man. I have said so in my profile if you read it. No amount of begging or "extenuating circumstances" will change my mind. I also assume that if you "prefer not to say" on your marital status that you are married. Just a tip to all you out there.

rm_klay2122 36M

8/20/2005 12:23 am

No real gain from this post for anyone just felt I had as good a reason as any to say something on the subject. For me being a 23 not ugly male online it is much different, no i do not have 50+ year olds getting a hold of me. No I do not have to put up with over half the shit you or any other female do online....the best thing is to take it is stride and learn and sometimes be amazed at some of the crap. I just moved out here so really I am taking any outlet I can to see what its about around here. This site is not the best measuring tool but it is one none the less. To cap my dribble hold fast don't change the values or standards and all will work out. So let it be written so let it be so or some shiznit like that and yes lady your post was entertaining so thanks for the smile on the late night.

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