Two Days in....  

dfwdallasguy 47M
21 posts
4/8/2006 10:00 am

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4/13/2006 11:25 pm

Two Days in....


Okay, I'm two days into this...let's review. First, it is very interesting how this site is set up. I'm not an expert on this, but I'm sure that most of these sites have a great number more males than females. I'm not a sociologist or an anthropologist...but I guess this means that there is substantially more males (on this site...I think at least a 10:1 ratio) looking for "adult" friendships.

Second...wow, what a money making machine! I can see why there are so many of these types of sites on here. Tens of thousands of people paying a $100/year or so...I can only speculate what that means in revenue. I would think after the initial site is set up and running smoothly, there is not an huge amount of overhead.

American capitalism at it's finest.

Now...how about the profiles. A list of a few disappointments after being on here for two days:

1. There are way too many "old" profiles. I'm sorry I missed some of these ladies...but the profiles seem to go back a long time...sometimes more than a year from their last visit to the site. I noticed this pretty quick....but it certainly inflates the number of people in the local area.

2. There are a lot of "stock" photos and I'm supposing filler profiles to attract newcomers. There seems to be a formula...enticing picture, very brief, forward list of what the lady wants in her profile...typically much more aggressive and forward than your typical lady...just sounds like a guy is writing it. I've seen a number of photographs I've seen elsewhere online...oh well. Not sure if this is a little devious or a bit of a shell game...but it is what it is.

3. I feel for the ladies on here. I can't imagine how much email they have to wade through to find what they are looking for. I truly wonder if a female ever sends and unsolicited email to a guy. I would think within 48 hours of her being online here...she would probably have a few 100 or so emails in her box.

So with all that...I guess the best I can do is try to write something sincere and to the point...it's hard to balance the sexual aspect of this with being respectful and not too blantant about things. I'm not sure if I'm hitting the mark...I've sent out a few emails..so we'll see.

__wonder__ 32F  
97 posts
4/8/2006 10:29 pm

well you sure caught my eye <33

<3 JL


HotTXpussy4U 49F

4/9/2006 11:44 pm

Yes - the ratio of men to women is astronomical. As an accountant, I've even tried to figure out the "figures"...it blew up my calculator. A sincere email will get you SO much farther than just a one liner with a "dick pic" attached. From my time here, most women are just trying to meet some nice guys - we can work with whatever package they might have. I don't know how many emails I've received...since the calculator blew up. But I typically only answer those that make it my Inbox - because they at least meet my minimal requirements. I know that some don't even look at their filtered mail at all. I ready ALL of mine, and even check out those that Wink, View and add me to their HotList. I'm a heck of a lot more picky about who is in my network and can see my albums.

So for some - it's all about numbers, others it's about size, and still for some..it's about finding "the one that is most sexually compatible". So many relationships end because of sex, or lack thereof. Somehow, I don't think that's the issue on this site.

Good Luck...don't give up!! {=}


rm_TxSweetTart 48F

4/10/2006 10:26 am

100 emails in 48 hours? lol....I've been here 3 weeks and I've had a total of 32. Yours being # 31.
Perhaps if I posted a nude or a picture with my boobs hanging out they would flock to me. But quality matters more than quantity to me...I'm not looking to "blow up a calculator"...I'm looking for decent smart man that won't play games.


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