Phone Sex With The Ex!  

dfw_femme_fatale 47F
412 posts
10/3/2005 6:40 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Phone Sex With The Ex!

After two months of no sexual communication of any kind my ex and I indulged in phone play the other night.

We had been talking long before we actually met, so phone sex was the first sex we had ever had together. Lying in my bed I was kind of surprised that it wasn’t as easy to slip into as it once had been. What had once been very familiar to me was now uncomfortable, almost awkward actually. (Unintended alliteration)

Before we had actually met and started dating, as a way to tease, and titillate, and excite each other over the phone we would describe our recent encounters with others. And the other night (two months after we stopped seeing each other) he had tried to fall back into that routine. I lied and told him that I hadn’t seen anyone since him. He lied and told me the same thing. At least I think he lied… I don’t know for sure. I wondered why I didn’t tell the truth. And I think it’s because by talking about my encounters I figured he would tell me about his since we broke up .. and I don’t want to know.

So since we couldn’t talk about our encounters with others…. We had to talk about our actual encounters. And I was surprised because he mentioned things that I didn’t even realize he had noticed.

Odd how we think that some of our sounds, and our movements, and the subtleties of our reactions go unseen and unheard. When chances are they probably don’t … its just our lovers (or exes) are just waiting for the right moment to mention them! I’m glad mine got the opportunity.


ProtonicMan 49M

10/3/2005 8:12 pm

Heart,
First, great photo! That's funny.

Interesting blog. Do I understand correctly that you have had other, nonsexual, communication with your ex? I don't think I would know how to manage that. I have to talk to my ex, because we have a child together.

I'm also wondering, if your ex had mentioned these little things earlier, would he still be your ex?

TJ


hotiowastud2 54M

10/4/2005 7:28 pm

Phone sex is fun. Even though you've parted ways, doesn't mean you can't have fun. Find an outlet so that you're not tempted to go back.


kyplowboy2 63M

10/4/2005 9:19 pm

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kpb2


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