what to do when its not fun anymore?  

designgirl062u 49F
4 posts
7/29/2006 6:40 am

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7/31/2006 3:28 am

what to do when its not fun anymore?

well...where to start...
i had fun here for a long time...met some great people, had some great times. Then i had the craziness of AdultFriendFinder - find out about stalkers, drama, liars, people who stir the pot in chat, and people who hunt you out through others! Some very crazy stuff!
But i also found nice people to chat with on a regular basis, as well as one person that made a huge difference to me, and still does.
i updated my profile right now to no more meets, no more drama...because its just got to the point of going thru the motions, in chat and in meeting. When it feels like whatever...why bother? Tired of going thru emails that are from the mundane to the ridiculous, and getting ims from people that have not read a thing about you - but somehow still want to fuck?? How in the hell could that be fun or interesting to me?
Updated it as well because had people actually going to others on my network and asking about me?? What is up with that...come talk to me and ask me instead - such bullshit.
Perhaps i will feel differently about it down the road, im not sure. For now i am content to let it be just this and concentrate on what makes me happy, not just what feels good for the moment.
I think we tend to drown ourselves in sex and others when maybe there is something else missing, i know i have done this and i am quite sure that others do it as well.
As for the drama people out there, you all know who you are, the liars, the fakes, the un-real people, to you all - what comes around goes around...be careful of your actions. Be careful what you do and say to others! I cannot stress being respectful enough!
For all the people who have been wonderful, upfront, fun, and friends, good luck with whatever you do or find that makes you happy. I too am still on that quest, but just found that AdultFriendFinder is not what i need at this point...and that its not fun anymore.

wannahumpunow2 41M

7/29/2006 9:39 am

Take care

rm___poet__ 46M
3583 posts
7/29/2006 10:18 am

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67coyboy 50M
494 posts
7/29/2006 12:44 pm

true inner beauty!
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