demonicsexkitten 43F
7239 posts
2/19/2006 1:38 pm

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Just curious... how many of you have showered with somebody else? Whether it was a sexual experience or just a "we're in a hurry, no time" kind of thing... i want to know. I've asked a number of men on this site (well: ok... an entire 2) and they have never shared a shower with anybody in their life. and both had been/are married. So: what's up with THAT??? i can't imagine being married and not taking full advantage of all the fun opportunities. of course i've never been married, and never even lived with a guy, so what do i know??

For myself... I was 20 and still a virgin when i first showered with a guy. Let me tell you: it was the most nerve-wracking moment of my life. The moment of indecision as i stood outside the bathroom door... wondering "should i? shouldn't i? will he be mad at me? will the friends whose house i'm at know? will THEY be mad??" Since nobody was in the living room at the time (actually everybody else might have still been asleep) i went ahead and snuck in. Butterflies in my stomache nearly making me sick. I am not sure if he knew I was there as I stripped down, but he didn't jump when i stepped into the shower behind him. The butterflies quickly eased as i discovered my presence was not unwelcome. (And for those curious: Yes, I was still a virgin afterwards).

I've also, surprisingly enough, showered in a men's communal shower. Yep... innocent, shy, quiet little me and yes: there were men in there. Though very few, and i didn't find out till later that one walked in right after i'd gotten naked and started walking up the steps to the shower. Had I known that, I'd have freaked. At this particular shower... men actually had individual stalls. So while there were no curtains, there was still a semblance of privacy. The women's shower, however, was just one big room with tons of showers. No privacy at all. (and the reason i showered in the men's was because I would have had to wait an hour to get a shower in the women's... no wait at all for the men's).

Besides sharing a shower for sensual reasons... i've also shared one for hurried reasons. You know, "Conserve water: shower with a friend". But with my hair so long, I have to get the water first, else it takes longer. I've also shared a bath. And been bathed. I've never given a guy a bath before though. Never thought of it till now. Though one of my most ... precious fantasies is to wash a man's hair. I'm saving that one for marriage though. Seriously... it has dug itself so deep in my heart... and even my soul. So if ever I wash your hair... you will know I've chosen you, and have opened myself to you completely. Love and Trust. You will then be holding the tenderest most vulnerable parts of my heart in your hand. But maybe that's TMI.

dayvudolfin 47M/46F
6 posts
2/19/2006 2:33 pm

ahh showering with someone else yes many times with my wife and indeed it can be a sensual thing , and there are times when time is short for an appointment and sharing the shower can save time. and for the married guys who never showered with thier wives , what is up with that, these must be the same guys who only take thier clothes off when the lights are out. wake up guys your missing out

90SchillingXport 51M

2/19/2006 2:33 pm

I could not imagine a large number of people, especially from this site, not taking advantage of the shower. That is such an easy avenue of errotic pleasure, readily available. The pleasure for me goes back a few years. I'd even look for an apartment with a central hot water system, rather than individual heaters, that would usually give a somewhat "endless" supply of hot water for all of errotica, late into the night or on a weekend afternoon.

Often it was a prelude to my fetish with the steam sauna, have the bath fill up with steam from the shower, only the glow of the heater to see the shadows of each other and then wrap each other with embrace slithering with the steam over each other. Still have not had it in a real steam sauna or dry sauna for that matter. Not easy to do when they are public.

Now I usually change the shower head and put on the "rain-head" and have an extension over to the center of the tub, then the water rains over her like a shower and I'm down on my knees licking away as the water trickles from her onto me. Or the reverse role of the same.

I'll end with my current shower intrique....Neutrogena soap. Didn't have any soap one evening, too small to really use, so I grabbed the facial bar, slathered that over each other. I discovered that it leaves the body fully clean and no perfume, all you smell is her and the skin feels so natural...and tastes better too...!

ToolsMulesFaker 41M
163 posts
2/19/2006 2:44 pm

Always helps to have someone scrub your back and you hers. ))

rm_alottacock52 65M

2/19/2006 2:55 pm

Hey there;
For the married have a wonderful opportunity to be with that very special person in your life, in the shower of course. Invite her in, bathe her, rinse her, and she can bathe you as well. It is personal, and it is giving, it is loving too.
For you....keep on thinking free...enjoy that moment...even if it is a bit intimidating, your you, and you are perfect.

demonicsexkitten 43F
10689 posts
2/19/2006 3:02 pm

dayvud: well... neither of the men i talked to are the "Only take their clothes off when the lights are out" types. But their wives might be. I'm not sure. Though for such a thing to happen (showering together)... it takes thought and action from one of hte parties. maybe they just never thought of it, or did but didn't think it would be appreciated.

and 90Schilling: thanks for the tip I'll go buy some neutrogena soap. and wow... i'm your first post... welcome to blogland

demonicsexkitten 43F
10689 posts
2/19/2006 3:22 pm

randy: thanks for adding that additional benefit

alottacock: woohooo! somebody thinks i'm perfect.. lol (OK... don't worry. i'm not ego tripping. lol) Unmarried guys: Same goes for you.

I think i just have too much time to "think"... between what i've experienced, regardless of who instigated, and what i've daydreamed about... i have an endless supply of ideas, sexual, playful, and otherwise. And a friend once told me that i had more experience with my (at the time) one physically intimate relationship than he did with 6 intimate relationships. mindboggling.

shyknight2005 44M
163 posts
2/19/2006 3:48 pm

I have always had a water fetish for some reason...especially stranger since I suffer from a moderate case of hydrophobia--fear of deep water...But the idea of a shower, waterfall, of my most intense fantasies. And have only recently been able to live it out in a shower..and yes it is alot of fun lol...just hope that the hot water heater is big enough...having the water suddenly turn cold on you in the middle of things is a definate shock and unfortuanately causes side effects lol...Luckily there is usually a bed close by to move to
Still wanting to try the waterfall and hottub btw milady

demonicsexkitten 43F
10689 posts
2/19/2006 4:22 pm

hahahahaha ohhh... that was funny, shyknight sorry to hear about the... side effects.

I want to experience a natural hot spring with or without sex, actually. lol.

i've got mild hydrophobia too... though it's not the water i fear, so much as the distance between me and the bottom of the ocean... and all the creatures between us.

letshavefun020 52M
17 posts
2/19/2006 6:29 pm

As you know, I've not done it yet.

I can't wait to try....

Allsleeky 37F

2/19/2006 6:38 pm

I've showered with female friends ( there was no sexual contact or intent from either party)
But I've showered with ex boyfriends and my husband.(one at the time)

ProtonicMan 49M

2/19/2006 7:42 pm


Oh, yeah. I have showered with every partner I have had. Sometimes for fun, sometimes for more "utilitarian" reasons. I prefer the fun ones.

Bathing together is nice too, but it really helps to have a big enough tub. There is a hotel in town that has a LOT of rooms with hot tubs. Those are good for a weekend getaway.

I love washing a woman's hair in a tub. It is great when she sits in front of me and leans back, and I can massage her scalp with the shampoo. Mmmmm. Makes for good cuddling afterwards, too.


Guy1378Fox 47M

2/19/2006 9:57 pm

It has been a long time since I have shared a shower with someone.

KMA5 42M
771 posts
2/20/2006 1:27 am

I remember my 1st rushed shower with a "friend" I now call my ex. We were both in a rush, her for work me for an interview and I gave her more than enough time to get her shower 1st. When I figured she had more than enough time after she was on the phone first, I just went in the shower behind her. She was shocked at first and my dick kept looking around to see what was happening but this was time for neither of them. I reached past her, adjusted the shower nozzle, soaped and rinsed while less than an inch from poking her in the side. Then I was on my way to get dry while she had to catch up. Not the most sensual memory but I'm very tact when I have to make time; and no, we still didn't hook up until many months after that.

demonicsexkitten 43F
10689 posts
2/20/2006 1:34 am

letshavefun020: no guarantees a shared shower will really be as good as i wrote it in my fantasy... maybe better, maybe less... but i'm sure you'll enjoy it once you try it.

allsleeky: i've only showered with female friends in open communal showers. hehe... just remembered an amusing time... one time we invited the men to come in and watch us showering. they ran in to find us all showering in our swimsuits... talk about upset. hahahha.

TJ: do they instigate it? Do you? or is it a mutual thing?? in my case... shared showers were instigated by me. being bathed instigated by others. sharing a bath... i really don't remember. also the last time i did that... i fell asleep. thankfully there was somebody behind me, or i'd have drowned.

guyfox: *HUG* it's probably been longer for me than for you but, ahhh! the memories... (and the fantasies)

demonicsexkitten 43F
10689 posts
2/20/2006 1:37 am

KMA5: i'm thinking it was probably more of an irritation for you at the time... giving her time for a shower and she didn't get in and use it. but it's a bit amusing to read

Guy1378Fox 47M

2/20/2006 11:02 am

YOu might be surprised. My ex lost interest in sexual activity a long time befor she dumped me. She says it was due to her medication.

90SchillingXport 51M

2/20/2006 6:47 pm

First Blog reply: Been on here about a month, but not a whole lot of time to read these. Saw "shower" and that grabbed my attention. I'm so fanatical about a shower that I will probably custom build a shower/sauna for two eventually. 4x7 with special seating...! If not used by two, at least my damn arms won't hit the walls anymore when I take my shower!

I almost did this with my last house, but job change dictated otherwise....maybe next house?

rm_VoodooGuru1 50M
2053 posts
2/22/2006 10:57 am

I first showered with a girl when I'm 17.

When I was engaged, she and I would shower together all the time, sometimes sexual, sometimes sensual, and sometimes just to save time getting ready.

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1 post
2/24/2006 5:04 am

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BigBoobLuver23 45M

2/28/2006 4:07 am

I used to shower with my girlfriend from 13 yrs ago. She suggested it one day and I was all too happy to oblige. It became a regular ritual with us afterward, even after we technically stopped dating. We would shower for both sensual and 'conserve water/time' reasons.

I loved having my back scrubbed....not to mention my cock cleaned. There aren't too many things that compare sharing a hot shower with a lover. It certainly makes starting the day that much more enjoyable. Then there is the sharing of a big old beach towel to dry each other. happym;

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