Lets Do It  

deepinkl 36F
25 posts
4/14/2005 1:40 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Lets Do It

Most men turn nasty when they do not get what they want.

Maybe I just want to start slow with you. Sitting on that comfy seat on your fantastic balcony in your gorgeous apartment and not just jump into bed with you.

You said and acted like it was ok.

But you didn't get what you really, really want.

So now we all know... Even though you didn't say anything.

1 post
6/24/2005 10:59 pm

Is this about a specific person or men in general?

rm_livingit76 42M
10 posts
6/26/2005 2:04 am

When a man and a woman togehter alone, men only think about just one thing while woman have more imagination and emotion and this is what most man don't know..

5 posts
7/1/2005 2:44 am

haaa....! haaaa....! livingit....what a true words of wisdom. some man don't know but some other do know coz they always waiting for the gul to tune in into the same 'channel' hee..hee...AND most of the gul know what!
anyway, some time gul try to act shy even they also think about the same thing as man do.

the question here sweet DEEPinkl....when u know what the guy had in his head when u together alone ....r u willing to be open and tell him the best thing to do? or tell him what u have in mind? & how u will compromise it?

Think & think DEEP my dear. I tried to think deep but not that 'deep' more like DeepIn... enjoy ur weekend.


7/1/2005 8:47 am

welcome to real life sweetheart, boys are boys... if they dont get their way they get mean and nasty. So I tell them up front of what is going to happen or not going to happen, and if they dont like it ... move on .

4 posts
7/5/2005 10:13 am

What U say was true.Some men do act like that.It all what they can think of when with a gal.But there are lot of men who can control their self who know when a gal says NO with bodylanguage & they can accept & respect it.Mostly a matured men.So don't thing negative to men with one bad experience..Explore more....

EHartmann 48M

7/10/2005 7:04 pm

Don't get upset by just one encounter. There's always a bad egg or a rotten apple somewhere. Take your time and when you are happy with your pick, go for it.

eternal1969 48M
1634 posts
7/17/2005 11:03 am

Looking at it from another point of view...
If the guy didnt say anything he couldnt have been that nasty
Maybe the setting was right and you really had him all hot and steamy
But knowing your need to take it slow.. he refrains himself and everything seems so awkward after that...
Something like that happened to me before... my friend and I were having drinks as we sat on a hill and she was telling me about her divorce ordeal and then as time went on she lay on her back onto me, her body beween my legs and her head on my chest. We both had a little too much to drink I suppose and I started to stroke her neck and played with the top buttons of her blouse.
She then told me that she wasnt ready to have sex with another guy at the moment and asked me to respect her as a friend. When she told me that I was already feeling quite turned on but was at the same time feeling guilty as I felt that I betrayed her trust in me as a friend. Trying to control my lustful intention, I pushed her upright and moved to the other side of the bench.
She thought that I was venting my frustration at not getting further and was trying to act petty. It did take some time to convince her otherwise.
But what can I say? We men get too easily aroused and if we need to draw the line and hold our horses, we have to pull our brakes and take a step back from being too intimate.

SexyMac25 32M
99 posts
8/20/2005 11:36 pm

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1 post
8/22/2005 9:24 pm

hi..dear....im sorry...u were disappointed with men..guys....etc...
that's the reality of life...and the truth is ugly and scary.....
its a matter of choice for most males to quench their thirst via physical sex but most of them lose their mind over sexual penetration and not so much as the act of love making...ie. take yr time....
i guess the biggest issue..here is that ..most men just do not respect women enough......cause the mentality of "hit and run" .."conquer thy woman" prevails in our society........
im sure u will find someone..someday,,,,..but hey....u have to make it real sometime....wish u luck,,,,

2 posts
10/3/2005 9:50 pm


wantingneed 58M

10/5/2005 8:59 am

Agree with zack414. Not all men are like that. Some men will respect your decision and apologise and move on as if nothing has happens.

I admit its quite hard to control our emotions when it gets to certain stage. But when we say its okay, we mean it.

3 posts
2/17/2006 10:38 am

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