Grooove In That Bootie  

dasher121 37M
3656 posts
8/29/2006 8:42 am

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Grooove In That Bootie

There was a recent study done, in the last year or so of sexuality and our current population of teens here in the US. One part that caught much debate and interest was their definition of what sex is.

According to the majority, oral sex is also concidered sex. This, I just cant get around. In my opinion, sex is cock to vaginal penetration. Period. I wouldnt point out a female whom I only exchanged oral with and say, "Yep, I had sex with her." No, no I didnt. I had ORAL with her.

So what do you think,

Is oral really sex to you?

Or is it what it is, just oral?

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rm_saintlianna 46F
15466 posts
8/29/2006 9:15 am

If there is a dick inserted somewhere inside me its sex, I dont care if its my earhole.

dasher121 replies on 8/29/2006 11:28 am:
So then if you gave a guy a bj and then saw him later while you were with someone then youd tell them that you had sex with the guy?

you wouldnt say oral? youd say "I had sex with him".

hardonyou88 57M

8/29/2006 9:18 am

I tend to agree with you. I think that Clinton changed things and oral is now = to sex.

dasher121 replies on 8/29/2006 11:29 am:
yes, although I liked Billy C, he caused his fair share of damage lol

hardonyou88 57M

8/29/2006 9:20 am

I think that sex required vaginal penetration. Any thing else is a stimulant and foreplay.

dasher121 replies on 8/29/2006 11:34 am:
I definitely agree there. Although I consider Oral to be an artform of sorts and a great skill to have,

its not sex. If it was sex then it would be called Sex not ORal Sex.

MWWwantmore 52F

8/29/2006 9:25 am

That has always been an arguement with many. I dont consider it sex just oral, but it is called oral sex for a reason LOL

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dasher121 replies on 8/29/2006 11:35 am:
that's right, because although it may be a different kind of sex, its still not sex.

hence the ORal infront of it.

digdug41 50M

8/29/2006 9:33 am

hmmm I guess I didnt have as much sex as I thought then

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dasher121 replies on 8/29/2006 11:32 am:
LOL too damn funny Dig!

freetime648 53F

8/29/2006 9:57 am

Ask Billy Boy (Clinton)....he thinks he knows it all!!!! And BTW, to me, I agree with Saint.....if it goes inside any part of my body, it IS sex...PERIOD!

xx FREETIME648 xx

dasher121 replies on 8/29/2006 11:32 am:
Same question posed to you as to Saint,

You would say that you had sex with a guy whom you gave head? Not I gave him head or we exchanged oral(as lame as that phrase sounds lol.)?

you'd just say, we had sex then?

purpletrashcan 52F
41658 posts
8/29/2006 10:09 am

Well, it IS called! LOL

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dasher121 replies on 8/29/2006 11:30 am:
yes it is called that. but if you are traveling with that line of thinking then I pose this to you,

Although it does have the word SEX in it the word ORAL is also there and infront of the word SEX.

rm_saintlianna 46F
15466 posts
8/29/2006 11:39 am

    Quoting digdug41:
    hmmm I guess I didnt have as much sex as I thought then

dasher121 replies on 8/29/2006 2:28 pm:
So then if you gave a guy a bj and then saw him later while you were with someone then youd tell them that you had sex with the guy?

you wouldnt say oral? youd say "I had sex with him".

Actually I would say I just drained that bastard dry, but yeah, Id say sex.

dasher121 replies on 8/29/2006 11:54 am:
Hahahahah, drained the bastard hahaha. Ok ok, I give up! But I still stand by my decision......its Not Sex dammit!

That would be like calling a Wine Cooler a beer. It has a lot of the same characteristics, the end result is comparably the same, and it has alcohol in it. But it's still a wine cooler, not a beer.

velvetgrrrl 40F

8/29/2006 12:01 pm

I don't know I view oral as less intimate than that to sex. Maybe because don't have to look the dude in the face. In fact the only thing I have to look at (And I could close my eyes) is his penis or her vagina. And I just have issues attaching any emotional feeling based ont he functions of said parts!

Hell is when u should have walked away, but u didn't.

dasher121 replies on 8/29/2006 12:12 pm:
yeah, avoiding emotion for those areas is a wise move lol.

LaVadaLicious 55F  
2770 posts
8/29/2006 1:05 pm

Dasher we could really get technical here on what defines sex.. LOL If you look it up, the word SEX itself refers to DNA as in male or female..

So isn't sex really about swapping DNA??

And if it is, then wouldn't Oral would be considered sex as well.

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dasher121 replies on 8/29/2006 1:09 pm:
you do have a point there, no doubt. However, if it is the exchange of DNA then wouldnt wearing a condom negate that,

you arent swapping DNA with a condom on are you? lol. and that definition is based on reproduction, not fucking for fun.

I should have never done this damn post hahaha but fuck it Im having fun with you ladies now muahahahaah.

freetime648 53F

8/29/2006 1:26 pm

    Quoting freetime648:
    Ask Billy Boy (Clinton)....he thinks he knows it all!!!! And BTW, to me, I agree with Saint.....if it goes inside any part of my body, it IS sex...PERIOD!

xx FREETIME648 xx

dasher121 replies on 8/29/2006 6:35 pm:
haha, ok ok. I DEFINITELY get the point there lol

Lemondrop15484u 55F
4816 posts
8/29/2006 1:53 pm

If that's all your doing is oral, I would say no it's not sex, your just pleasing her/him.

dasher121 replies on 8/29/2006 6:36 pm:
well thank you for that! haha

goldinboy2 61M

8/29/2006 3:25 pm

Who cares what its called your still getting off ARRRRRRGGGGGGG... but congress did say that oral isn't sex as long as its with a president. DOOOHHHHH ORAL SEX ANAL SEX EARLOBE SEX WE ALL LOVE IT ALL.

dasher121 replies on 8/29/2006 6:36 pm:
true enough man, and didnt realize this would be a debate. DAmn, should have brought the rest of the team!

Catdoc2000 58M

8/29/2006 6:06 pm

I don't know I would consider any physical contact between 2 people that results in orgasm as having sex. That of course means there are some sick fuckers out there who think that dry humping while riding mass transit is sex. Orgasm is the key. Isn't masturbation having sex with yourself?

dasher121 replies on 8/30/2006 7:30 am:
beating off is not having sex hahaha.

strongelk2006 54M

8/29/2006 9:12 pm

Dude,,Is a hand job sex too? If you look at all acts of pleasure with someone or not,,is it sex? To me I have the old fashion kind of sex,,I get some live pussy.



dasher121 replies on 8/30/2006 7:31 am:
true enough dude. yep, sex is good ol sex to me....not masturbation, not oral, not anal, or anyother weird shit people come up with. sex is sex dammit haha.

willudomeharder 40F
85 posts
8/30/2006 6:35 am that I think about it, I've never given oral to a guy I didn't end up having actual "sexual intercourse" with in the same time I don't know. I don't think it's the same TYPE of sex...but there is still penetration. And, if it's not "real" sex because it has the word oral in front of it....what about anal sex? Does that count as "real"sex because the orifice used is south of the Mason Dixon line?

dasher121 replies on 8/30/2006 7:32 am:
I figured this one would come up eventually because of my argument with oral infront of the word sex.

nope, anal sex is anal sex. You wouldnt say I had sex with her, it would be I had Anal sex with her haha.

I am NEVER writing about this again hahahah.

kinkybutcute27 39F
23 posts
8/30/2006 8:30 am

At the risk of being shunned by my fellow females on here - I have to agree with Dasher. I don't consider oral to be "sex." Everyone's definitions of sex is different, but for me there are different "levels." They begin with petting and kissing and end up with actual sex - oral is somewhere towards the end, but before sexual organ penetration. If I saw a guy that I had only given a blowjob to, I wouldn't say I had had sex with him - I would say that we had "messed around" or something to that effect. If you can't get pregnant doing it - it's not sex.

dasher121 replies on 8/31/2006 8:51 am:
Exactly!! and thank you for your comment on this. That was one of the best explanations for this side of the argument.

I see where everyone else is coming from, I just dont agree lol.

crazygurl2xx 58F

9/4/2006 10:36 am


dasher121 replies on 9/7/2006 4:06 am:
hahaha no commment.

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