Taking the plunge!  

daneNH 48M/47F
2730 posts
8/10/2006 12:15 pm

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Taking the plunge!

Ok, I've succombed! I'm starting a blog! No idea what the hell to say to you all...got ideas for future posts, but for now....what do you want to know???

I'll share the happenings in my life TODAY....getting ready for a very fun and anticipated night. Two of our new friends from this site are visiting tonight. Should be a very nice play date! God, I love when the play dates aren't for the kids!

Hubby has some fairly structured rules that we follow for play time. We never play on the first date...always meet a couple times in public places, then they are allowed to our house to play. Once here, no playing in the family room (front door with windows comes into this room and perhaps the teenage boy across the street could see in the windows with binoculars...quite the imagination he has, I know!). Anyway, this couple got the free pass on our first date! We went to dinner at a local joint. We all had a great time and Hubby invited them back to our house to watch a movie. The couple, unfortunately didn't realize this meant that he was good to play...I wasn't clear on it...and he's not one to make the first move, so no playing happened that night!

So, here we are today, with way too much excitement in anticipation of tonights festivities! We've talked waaaay too many times in detail with what we'd like to do to each other. Today, I've cleaned every square inch of the house that they may see. Our "sex room" doesn't have AC. Our bedroom does, but it's close to the kids' rooms. The family room is a great place, but the front door.....thus, the whole house is clean!

Hubby and I are debating our "warm up activities" today. I suggested 9 1/2 Weeks, which we talked about with them on our first date. A friend suggested strip poker...mind you, I don't have any idea how to play! We have a truth or dare book that is fun....but how do you suggest that???

Sooo, stay tuned, perhaps I'll be able to fill you in on some details tom.!

fantasylover_05 63M

8/10/2006 12:34 pm



I will be expecting DETAILS!! LOL

daneNH replies on 8/10/2006 1:51 pm:
I was gonna tell you...you're the one who convinced me too! Thanks, hon....I'll post tom. as soon as I get my butt out of bed!

2daycowboywanted 46F

8/10/2006 12:43 pm

Well here is good luck to tonight festivities!

Until later

daneNH replies on 8/10/2006 1:52 pm:

rm_PurryKitty2 49M/51F
9753 posts
8/10/2006 1:04 pm

sounds like a fun time is about to be had by all. Any of your warmups will work just fine. We look forward to hearing about it!!

Purry and Sail


daneNH replies on 8/10/2006 1:53 pm:
I certainly hope we all have fun!!!! I know they'll work...it's just what we can decide on!!!!

expatbrit49 64M

8/10/2006 1:06 pm

Congrats on finally starting a blog... Now strip poker... the fact that dont know how to play should be reason enough to choose that

Thank You for Your Time and Attention

daneNH replies on 8/10/2006 1:54 pm:
I know, my friend that suggested the game said the same thing...it just wouldn't be fair if I'm the only naked one though!!! I at least need company!

electriccompany 54M

8/10/2006 1:22 pm

Strip poker is easy. Just show them your best pair! Try not to be too noisy about it though, as you already have a full house.

daneNH replies on 8/10/2006 1:54 pm:
That's pretty bad!!!! But thank you!

Pinchhitter71 46M
25 posts
8/11/2006 2:36 am

Okay in my experiences you don't need to do much. Sit in seperate couches with each guy have the other wife sitting with them. Then just start talking and drinking some wine. Discussions will turn to flirting, which will turn to touching and then the game is one. If one couple is ahead of the other, then the other couple will become aroused by what their spouses are doing and immediately start their own thing. Then you can take it from there into whatever combination of 2/3/or 4somes you desire. In my experiences the less planning the better it takes the pressure off.

Again this is just how my wife and I have done it in the past.

Just sharing my thoughts.

daneNH replies on 8/11/2006 6:44 am:
We've done it all before, we were just having a little spat on what to do last night! We have a great couch for things! It's a big sectional, everyone can sit where ever they want and still be close by....see everything....

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