Dom or Sub?  

daneNH 48M/47F
2730 posts
8/27/2006 10:49 am

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Dom or Sub?

Juuuust wondering. Do most of you consider yourself dominant or submissive? I had always thought I was somewhat dominant. Didn't think I really did what others suggested. Someone from here once asked me what I was. Hubby was sitting here so I asked him. He thought I was completely submissive! Started to rethink things...ok, I'm fairly submissive.

Since realizing that, I've decided that I like playing the semi-submissive role. I bought a pair of remote controlled vibrating panties. I love giving the remote to hubby when we're out. Love letting some one else work on me when no one suspects it.

I've also decided that I want someone to somewhat dominate me in bed. Not in a nasty way....just kind of taking control over me. One of my biggest fantasies right now is to be blind folded and tied up by two men. I want them to do whatever they want to me....God, that sounds like fun!

Sooo, which are you, dom or sub?

rm_PurryKitty2 49M/51F
9753 posts
8/27/2006 11:23 am

I like being submissive!!

Purry {=}


daneNH replies on 8/27/2006 5:33 pm:
Birds of a feather....

BlueCanary1575 43M
116 posts
8/27/2006 1:29 pm

"I bought a pair of remote controlled vibrating panties."

Technology is amazing, isn't it?

daneNH replies on 8/27/2006 5:33 pm:
Thank God for engineers!!!

You didn't answer the question though!

want2play926 46F

8/28/2006 11:51 am

I think that I am more submissive.

daneNH replies on 8/28/2006 1:44 pm:
This is all making me wonder if women are still naturally a bit more submissive...I'd like to think that I'm NOT!

expatbrit49 64M

8/28/2006 4:35 pm

Most guys are pushed into the role of dom.. and while I dont mind, I have to say that I also enjoy being the sub at times

Thank You for Your Time and Attention

MisterPriapus 58M
6980 posts
8/28/2006 4:46 pm

As a lesbian trapped in a man's body, I'm afraid that I may well prove to be the statistical outlier, here.

I tend to be more 'active,' as opposed to 'passive' I suppose. Not particularly into any power trips, unless that means setting the cruise control at 85...

Maybe that has to do with my gut misinterpreting "Dominant" with "Domineering," which is so a turn-off.



Been a while since they last let me out into polite society. Resurfacing, catching a breath, & catching up.

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rm_Hellohyeah 39M

8/29/2006 7:03 am

I am 90% dom because I like to take control and please the other person. Making a woman cum makes me feel good and let's be are easy to finish. But then there is that 10% of the time I want to lay back and see what she wants...not what I think I have figured out over the years.

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