Trust No One Online  

dan_dreamer 40M
5 posts
3/23/2006 4:49 pm

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3/27/2006 12:21 am

Trust No One Online

I actually started this as another way to find possibly friends or partners into the swinger lifestyle. Much of what I'll say here you should already know but I'd like to reinforce the claims that some people don't want to hear.

I joined AdultFriendFinder I don't know, a year ago I think. I joined as a gold member not expecting much and that is exactly what I got.

First do not trust anyone that isn't paying for this site. All members that are standard are in my opinion scammers, spammers, guys with little or no lives, girls with little or no lives, etc.

Second watch out for those that are paying for the site. A lot of what is on here is bullsh*t. People lie so much I've almost lost faith in honesty at least in the on line world.

Seriously trying this on line thing has made me run back to the singles bar and club scene. You can't match a face to face meeting with on line chat.

I have ran into everything on this site. People trying to sell sites, spam you, joking around just to make fun of some one and on and on.

I totally agree with others that some profiles on here are strictly made by AdultFriendFinder to get people to join the site. Profiles that come up on searches mysteriously disappear when you click on them. It all comes down to this being a HUGE scam.

I won't renew my membership when it is up this year (THANK GOD!). Being on line does make it faster to meet people, but it increases the chances (99% of the time in my experience) that you are talking to some one who isn't genuine.

For those of you that swear by this on line crap, prove me wrong. How is it better than meeting face to face in a bar or club?

I know it is a crap shoot either way but in my experience meeting people face to face works a whole hell of a lot better than on line, truly.

I'd like to hear from everyone on this. Do you think this site is annoying or do you swear by it? Future posts I'll give examples and actual experiences that I've had (all of them bad) from this pathetic site. Believe me I have not had 1 good experience being on this thing it is that bad.

MWWwantsmore 52F

3/23/2006 5:46 pm

I am sorry that you had a bad experience on here. I honestly have had some luck on here. I am staying mainly to blog though, it is a way for my to let loose sometimes. I was also bored being out on medical leave Online you never know what you are going to get, thats true!

Djeeper1987 48M

3/23/2006 5:49 pm

I haven't had much luck at all. I mostly get the ones that want me to pay for a site to get there information such as emails, etc. I don't know why I bother, but lately I have been having fun on the blog. And mostly just wishing others the best of luck!

Carpe Diem

AshenMagusDonor 72M
57 posts
3/23/2006 6:39 pm

I agree about the fakes...but there are tons more that have signed up...but have not been active for years. And the profiles stay order for you to spend your cash and sign up because of all the people you see on here. Of course...there's the 6000 males for each female. Anyway...thats after researching 4 states. But...I have done well on here by meeting some great woman and having some fine friends. Just depends on what and who your looking for.

dan_dreamer 40M
1 post
3/23/2006 6:53 pm

Thanks for the fast responses. I am happy that some people have had positive results, just with me it hasn't been good. Could have been the area I lived in prior to moving to San Francisco or maybe not. Who knows....

KitheSmallGuess 66M
1 post
3/25/2006 8:39 pm

so true make a date to meet and do they show up? no! wonder why; they just don't be honest from the start?

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