Rude Viewers  

damn_dame 47F
64 posts
1/30/2006 7:47 pm

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4/28/2006 11:40 pm

Rude Viewers

I have had two bad experiences since I have begun camming. I have given this plenty of thought and I am ready to speak out.

I completely understand that I am not attractive to some, most, or all men. I am definately not super-model built, not a hard-body, not every man's fantasy. I don't expect to be, and quite honestly, don't care to be. I am happy with most of my body. The parts that I am not happy about, well, I can live with them as is.

What DOES upset me, are rude comments from viewers when I am camming. I do not invite viewers to view me. Everyone is free to click on...and click off if they do not like what they see. What purpose do they have in making a comment/comments on what they think about my body? To me, it reveals a grave lack of character.

I would offer everyone who reads this post this piece of advice, and trust me, the majority of you have made nothing but positive, sweet, and encouraging comments, which I truly do appreciate, but for the minority, the rare few whom have come across my path, please keep your comments to yourself if the person you are viewing is not to your liking. You are free to click on, feel free to click off, nothing needs to be said. Please help to keep AdultFriendFinder a place where everyone can come to freely express thier sexuality, in whatever way they wish. If it offends you, don't view.

Thanks, Damn Dame

junpal100 71M/59F

2/12/2006 3:48 am

i can believe what you say the one thing that spoils this site are the wierdos they click on as you say you do not invite them to click on and make derogatory remarks which are very hurtful unfortunately there is nothing that can be done to stop them and they are ruining peoples enjoyment. carry on camming girl we think you are great

DesertSailor2009 51M

2/12/2006 11:02 am

While I completely understand your frustration and feelings at these insensitive jerks, unfortunately it is going to be the reality on websites like this, especially when anonymitiy is afforded the opportunity to flourish behind standard and pictureless profiles, and where information can never be verified as long as someone feels the need to lie about who they are and what they want. I'm sorry to hear you have had these experiences with those who view your cam. I personally find camming a very good and personal way to meet people, discover that people are indeed real behind who they say they are, and getting on web cam is my preferred method of finding out who a person is. I just hope for every 100 jerks and morons who think they can ruin this experience for you, the one or two people at a time who view your cam will be enough to keep your experiences positive and encouraging to keep doing what you are doing.

LordLOBO_I 56M
1485 posts
2/20/2006 1:03 am

some guys are just jerks... ignore them and go on... do what makes YOU happy... I won't go nto why these jerks are the way they are... because it does not matter - they are who they are - JERKS... losers, insignificant individuals - who are lost...

I have said enough...

Love your Shows !!!

bigfootfireman 51M

2/23/2006 5:29 pm

Hey,darling chin up, the world is full of butt heads and most can't help them selfs. So hold your head up and share your life the way you want if they don't like it they can change it..

damn_dame 47F

3/1/2006 1:20 am

Helpp1970, aww, thanks for the sweet things you said! You are romantic and thoughtful when you want to be. And you are right, they don't know me and what a wonderful person I am. LOL

Junpal, thanks so much for the kind words. It is a little irritating but I plan to do just what you said, carry on. Glad you like the shows! I love doing them!

Desertsailor, you are right, camming can tell so much about a person and their personality. It is very revealing in more than one way. I won't let these idiots turn me off to camming, but had to vent! LOL Thanks for your post and good camming to you!

LordLobo, hey darling, yes I remember you well. Im glad you enjoy the shows because I love doing them! I guess it shows huh? Thank you for the post and your encouragement to continue on. Keep watching huh!

Bigfootfireman, thanks for the advice. I plan to do just that. I won't let a few "buttheads" ruin what I get enjoyment from. Thanks for posting and hope to see more of you!

Damn Dame

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