Why am I here.  

dakotaguy1973 44M
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6/17/2006 10:20 pm

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6/19/2006 1:17 pm

Why am I here.

Well, that's kind of a rhetorical question. I'm here because I'm bored with the way things are or because I am curious about sexual lifestyles...I'm not sure which is the greater reason.

The first thing I want to establish is that I am a happily married man. Honestly. I'm not here looking to cheat. In fact, I don't know if I could. Sure, I'd like to share a physical experience with other people, but to me that's all it would be. My wife and I do and share many activities together that I consider "intimate", and that is what makes my marriage strong. Sex is not a major part of our life.

Second, I don't want to find a "lover". My wife is my lover. I want to find friends that are looking for mutual experiences and have no demands or expectations other than to have fun--online, socially and maybe physically.

Third, I want to meet people who are respectful. There are so many people here with outrageous handles, profiles, blogs... Not here. I am looking for honest, real people who do not feel the need to make incredible claims to get friends.

I have not posted a pic or very much info on my profile because I don't know where to start. What do people want to know? What do people want to see? I'll update my profile when I am comfortable to do so. One on one communication is more attractive to me right now, but things may change. Thanks for stopping by, and feel free to post a comment if you wish.

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