Can You Get Hard w/ Someone You're NOT Attracted To?  

daisy_lincoln 47F
3002 posts
2/13/2006 7:21 pm

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Can You Get Hard w/ Someone You're NOT Attracted To?

Can you get hard when you're with someone you're not really attracted to? How does that work? Do you think/fantasize about being with someone else that you are attracted to?

MrGuy1970 47M  
3 posts
2/13/2006 10:37 pm

Sure! Getting hard is not ussually the problem, it's finishing off. Personally, if I'm not really attracted to the person, and/or there's not any chemistry when the sex is happening, thats when fantasy comes in.

rm_CDRoss 35M
655 posts
2/13/2006 11:21 pm

How unattracted? If it were just neutral (don't find them attractive, but also not unattractive either.) it would be possible I suppose. I mean, we can often get hard alone with just the imagination, and even without at times.
Though, on the other hand, if it were someone we found repelling or revolting, well... then it would be more difficult.

Dallas_Male_35 48M
255 posts
2/13/2006 11:28 pm

I can not. If you have no desire to be with them, there is no blood flowing and it just doesn't happen . . . at least not for me!

gnr8nrg 47M

2/13/2006 11:52 pm

You can be attracted to many things besides the looks. However I tried to get intimate with a woman I wasn't attracted to physically at all. It didn't work for me. I couldn't get into it at all.

sillyperv 55M

2/14/2006 9:14 am

I'm neurotic enough with someone I'm attracted to, so forget it with someone I'm not into. I wouldn't waste either of our time.

rm_cooking364 46

2/14/2006 9:59 am

i guess it depends on the person some people need an attractive partner to get hard some just need the promise of sex the question is whether you can get off once your hard?

SirMounts 103M

2/15/2006 9:14 am

Yes, but Only around girls who I am not attracted to. Hey wait a minute... no wonder I strike out with beauty queens! lol

zongo1000 60M

2/15/2006 4:41 pm

No. There has to be an attraction, although that does not mean that the person has to be a centerfold. I had a girl friend that was not that physically attractive, but for whatever reason when every we touched (dressed or not) I went hard immediately. Maybe it was because I knew she was so sexually uninhibited and that anything went.

kekamakani 50M

3/8/2006 10:14 pm

I get hard on if a warm breeze finds it way under my shorts. Although, if I'm not attracted to a woman, there is no chance. Now, unattractiveness could also be the personality and not necessarily physical attributes or looks, and if the personality is foul, then cancel the boner. A hot sexy body may get my attention but an unattractive personality is not a quality trait worthy of an erection.

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