Women & Bondage....  

daighi 50M
1627 posts
7/4/2006 11:12 pm

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Women & Bondage....

Hi there,thanks for dropping in.

I have to say that sometimes,it's nice to be submissive,& i like to be tied up,& teased.

With that thought in mind,i'd ask you to answer this poll,& leave a comment to explain your choice.

It's all in a bit of fun!

Hugs & kisses,

D. XX
I like to tie my man/partner up & play with his/her mind,& senses by teasing him/her.
I like to tie my man up,straddle him,& ride him like a horse..Yee Haa!!!
I like it when i'm tied up,by my man/partner,& he/she teases me with his /her tongue...it blows my mind!
I like it when my partner ties me up & he/she teases me with an array of toys,& makes me cum many times before full sex.
I like to be tied down,& used by my partner,the rougher the better!
I don't like bondage,never felt comfortable with it,& i don't think i will.
I hav'nt tried bondage before,but i'm open to exploring it with the right partner.
I'm a submissive,& i just do as my Master/Mistress tells me to do.


"Always remember...keep smiling!"

Hugs,

D. XX


daighi 50M
1449 posts
7/4/2006 11:24 pm

Hi there again.

I opted for #3 in this poll.I love it when my partner/s are in a kinky playful mood,& want to tease me,& excite me,before the main event.

It is SO erotic to place your pleasure in their hands,& let my senses & libido be tested to the max.

Sometimes it's done to completion,but other times it's just short of my cumming.Thats my favorite type of bondage play,as it always leaves me wanting more.

It does'nt happen with all my partners,as only a few of them like it themselves,but it can be a very erotic way of getting to know what your partner likes most,& finding out how much eroticism they can take before they reach the pleasure threshold.

If you hav'nt tried light bondage before,then i would suggest it to you to just try it.So long as you trust your partner,there should be no problems.

I can tell you that it will be an erotic experience,for both of you.Just as it should be!

Have fun!

D. XXX

"Always remember...keep smiling!"

Hugs,

D. XX


daighi 50M
1449 posts
7/5/2006 12:28 am

    Quoting smirkingdevil:
    I tried the full bondage experience once. Not an easy thing to do. Many in the bondage community are hesitant to let outsiders "in", especially dominates, and with good reason. After about 2 months of trying, I found a submissive who showed me the ropes (pun intended).

    I discovered that I am not really into bondage at all. It's actually a lot of work! I even tried it with a non submissive woman I was having sex with at the time. The experience did nothing to convince her or I to start "living the lifestyle".

    Now, I rarely adventure to the bondage side of sexual pleasure. Once in a while I will break out the equipment and go to town on a "curious" woman. Other than that, I rarely even do even lite bondage.


Hi Smirkingdevil,thank you for you vote & comment.

It's a shame that your experience of bondage so far has been a disappointment to you,or at least that as you say,it did nothing for you.

I have to say that i think this MAY have been that you have tried the harder side of bondage first,& were put off by it.(I can't tell by your comment if thats true,sorry).

I suppose,in recommending it,I should point out that it's NOT for everyone,but also that if anyone is thinking of trying it,then it should be on the lighter side of bondage that they start.

By that i mean that they should try just using silk scarves,or some other soft materials to tie up,& NOT ropes & handcuffs etc.At least not at the start.

As i said in my posting,bondage should be something that is enjoyed by both participents.By starting with silk scarves,(which should'nt leave a mark),they offer a sensual feel to the whole experience,& they should be tied loosely.

Introduce a blindfold when both of you are happy with the situation,as this heightens the sensations felt by the reciever.

Use your tongue,or fingertips to gently stroke your partner/s body all over,avoiding the obvious areas to start with,& take it from there.

Introduce,varying toys to the play,like feathers,icecubes,vibrators,
or anything that will sensitise your partners arousal.

Bring him/her to orgasm for the first few times,then play with orgasm denial later on.It willenhance both of your pleasures by the power of ten.(No pun intended)

Enjoy,& have fun!

D. XXXX

"Always remember...keep smiling!"

Hugs,

D. XX


rm_Kinjukinji 50M/40F
64 posts
7/5/2006 10:29 am

You've read our blog and know us -- we aren't into pain of ANY kind. My first gf, though, used to love playing bondage games by just tying and teasing. I like both giving and receiving that way, but go no further. I had to choose one, so it was the dominate one, which is what I take most of the time.


daighi 50M
1449 posts
7/6/2006 1:27 am

    Quoting rm_Kinjukinji:
    You've read our blog and know us -- we aren't into pain of ANY kind. My first gf, though, used to love playing bondage games by just tying and teasing. I like both giving and receiving that way, but go no further. I had to choose one, so it was the dominate one, which is what I take most of the time.
Hi Kin,thank you again for your post.

Yes i know that pain is not on your agenda,which is perfectly normal,& is always to be respected.

When i was talking about bondage here,i was'nt talking baout the extreme forms of bondage,that you would experience during bdsm play.

The type of bondage i am talking about is more sensual play.Play that arouses the senses & heightens the climax at the end.It's safeplay,using silk scarves,& feather-like strokes of the skin all over to tantilise,& tease your partner.

It's a great way of getting to know how to turn your partner on,& finding out what makes him/her go crazy for you.

This type of play should ALWAYS end in orgasm for the reciever,or for both players,as it IS arousing teasing someone also.

It's really NOT about Dominance....it's more about sensuality.!

Perhaps Addy & you might contact me online again,& i could go through it all with both of you.I know that she would appreciate you devoting even more time to her pleasure than you do already.

Sending you both best wishes,have fun!Give my regards to Abby.

Always your friend,

Hugs,

D. XX

"Always remember...keep smiling!"

Hugs,

D. XX


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