I was just thinking....  

daighi 50M
1627 posts
8/9/2006 10:54 am

Last Read:
3/21/2010 4:11 am

I was just thinking....

...about what [blonde367] said in one of my recent threads I got a text.

"Well you enjoyed yours anyway..lol "

I'm thinking...Does it seem like we are bragging when we post a thread like this?

Is it sort of rubbing it in the face of those people who maybe hav'nt had such a good weekend?

I wrote the thread,purely because i was excited by what had happened,& i wanted to share it with you all.

I did'nt realise that some of you might have taken offence by it,or be pissed off because it's "yet another guy bragging about his conquests".

Have i got this all wrong?Does it bother you if you read that someone has had such a good time that they want to share it?

OR..would you rather NOT know?

I wrote it also because it was a very erotic experience,& i thought some of you at least MAY like reading it,thinking it might just "Hit The Spot",for SOME of you.

Did i get this wrong also?

It's ONE reason why i DON'T as a rule write erotica TOO much in my blog.Because i think that i might be rubbing it in the face of others NOT so fortunate.

Maybe from now on,i'll stick to fantasies,& not real life,that way i won't risk hurting anyone!

Thanks for your visit,for taking the time to read this & for commenting,if you find the time.

Hugs,

D. XXX


"Always remember...keep smiling!"

Hugs,

D. XX


moonlightphoenix 46F
6508 posts
8/9/2006 12:29 pm

Daighi,

You can't please all the people all the time. I think blogging is about honesty and who you are. The things you want to share. Doesn't offend me in the slightest. I dont' generally like reading hot n bothered stuff...but of course i'm going to read YOURS cause I want to know what's going on with YOU. And you really have a way of getting into the situation that really whets my appetite (such as it is these days).

So...your blog is your home. If people are offended, they leave. If they want to get to know you, they'll hang around.

I'm hanging around.


BaronessK 53F

8/9/2006 3:18 pm

She may have been only replying in a joking matter, too, hun; I do that some when someone writes something like that...usually saying something about disregard all my smartass retorts because I am just JEALOUS {hornily so, at that}! Then what do I know...I'm in an oral fixation club, and write about oralizations and anal sex...and right now, I'm doing it from Hospital California! Oh, coming up is a thing, sort of, about anal, so if you have the time drop in later today or whenever and tell me if I missed anything!


CognitiveVoodoo 46F

8/9/2006 4:34 pm

Did I miss something? Are you saying you wrote about a really good experience, and someone was offended by it??

Sounds to me as though someone is envious, not offended.

People like to read about lives that are worse than their own, if only to make them feel better about their shitty situation(s).

Screw them. Be honest, and say whatver it is you want. It's your blog, dude!

Thanks for the welcome, btw... I will be back in the future


rm_PurryKitty2 49M/51F
9753 posts
8/9/2006 5:11 pm

Say what you want and dont worry about others!

Purry {=}

Purry


rm_esmeralda285 41F
381 posts
8/9/2006 5:30 pm

Don't worry about it. If people don't like what you write then they can leave. There would be always some whom like it.


MarcySullivan 53F
3598 posts
8/9/2006 6:04 pm

I much prefer real life stories over fantasy!!

xoxo


xoxo
Marcy

Visit my group Analsex lovers and my blog Marcy's world!!


rm_goddess1946 107F
13518 posts
8/9/2006 7:40 pm

Oh my... I can't wait to read it, D!!
Kissssssssssssssssssss....my bedtime story...
a real one ...sending you love and thanking you
in advance for all energies put into writing it...

going to read now
{=}

Just a little food for thought.............
If you really want to be happy, nobody can stop you...
{=}


daighi 50M
1449 posts
8/12/2006 3:08 pm

    Quoting blonde367:
    Of course it doesnt offend ppl, loads write bout their true experiences as opposed to fantasy, and if someone can have that sort of unexpected encounter then all the better,I thought it made great reading..I find it hard to write that way sometimes, would love to be able to..the odd time I brave it out and go for it..keep it up, it was great and anyone who may take offence,tho I douubt they would, well they dont have to read it or come back to your blog, your blog is yours to write how u so wish and should nver be about other ppl, only your thoughts desires experiences queries etc xoxo J
Thanks for that honey.It was what you said in a comment that prompted me to write it.I'm so glad that you liked the thread,as it did take so long to write,but i think it turned out well.

I don't find it hard to write erotic or sexy stories,as i have a very active imagination when it come to sex,& all things sexual.

Real life is SO sexy to write about,as it IS just that,real...I don't have to imagine anything & the feelings i felt are real too.There's no substitute for that!

as for the words....they just come to me,as it's easy to describe real life anyway.I just tell it like it happens.So if you want to write something sexy or erotic,just put yourself in that place & write about it.

I just felt,when i read your initial comment that maybe i had gone overboard with posting my thread.I kind of thought that i may have been rubbing it in the face of those less fortunate.

But i now realise that it IS only a story afterall,& just something i wanted to share,as SO many more have done in their blogs.

I can assure you that i will continue to write as i have,& bring up the thoughts & ramblings as they enter my head.As for more erotica,well,i guess it's ok to keep that up too..lol....

Thanks for your post,& your visit.

Hugs,

D. XXX

"Always remember...keep smiling!"

Hugs,

D. XX


daighi 50M
1449 posts
8/12/2006 3:15 pm

    Quoting moonlightphoenix:
    Daighi,

    You can't please all the people all the time. I think blogging is about honesty and who you are. The things you want to share. Doesn't offend me in the slightest. I dont' generally like reading hot n bothered stuff...but of course i'm going to read YOURS cause I want to know what's going on with YOU. And you really have a way of getting into the situation that really whets my appetite (such as it is these days).

    So...your blog is your home. If people are offended, they leave. If they want to get to know you, they'll hang around.

    I'm hanging around.


Moonlight,thank you SO much for that vote of confidence...lol

I feel honored that you have taken so much of an interest in me & my blog alike.

It makes me feel good to know that you enjoy my thoughts & words,& i'm SO glad that you've decided to "hang around"..

As i have just said to Blonde367,the words just seem to flow,& it really IS so much easier to describe some thing thats real.

I have been told that i have a way with words,& that i am a good letter writer,so maybe there is some merit to that too...lol

Thank you for your frequent visits,& for your contributions to my blog also.

Hugs,& kisses,

D. XXXXX

"Always remember...keep smiling!"

Hugs,

D. XX


daighi 50M
1449 posts
8/12/2006 3:19 pm

    Quoting BaronessK:
    She may have been only replying in a joking matter, too, hun; I do that some when someone writes something like that...usually saying something about disregard all my smartass retorts because I am just JEALOUS {hornily so, at that}! Then what do I know...I'm in an oral fixation club, and write about oralizations and anal sex...and right now, I'm doing it from Hospital California! Oh, coming up is a thing, sort of, about anal, so if you have the time drop in later today or whenever and tell me if I missed anything!
Thanks BK for that too.Your comments always make me smile.& i do find it so easy to answer you.I enjoy your posts,& look forward to getting to know you more both here,& in the groups.

I'll have a look at that post your talking about..i will always make time to visit your blog & posts.

Hugs,

D. XXX

"Always remember...keep smiling!"

Hugs,

D. XX


daighi 50M
1449 posts
8/12/2006 3:27 pm

    Quoting CognitiveVoodoo:
    Did I miss something? Are you saying you wrote about a really good experience, and someone was offended by it??

    Sounds to me as though someone is envious, not offended.

    People like to read about lives that are worse than their own, if only to make them feel better about their shitty situation(s).

    Screw them. Be honest, and say whatver it is you want. It's your blog, dude!

    Thanks for the welcome, btw... I will be back in the future
Hi CV,thanks for that!...I don't think that she was envious of me,but that she was saying it in jest.

Thank god that so far i hav'nt had a BAD experience with my posts,& so far have managed NOT to offend anyone.

You are very welcome to blogland,& i truly DO hope that you get alot out of it.

It's great to know also that you will return again,which is always a good thing!Thanks for your visit,& post.

Hugs,

D. XXX

"Always remember...keep smiling!"

Hugs,

D. XX


daighi 50M
1449 posts
8/12/2006 3:29 pm

    Quoting rm_PurryKitty2:
    Say what you want and dont worry about others!

    Purry {=}
Thanks for that honey,it's nice to know i have your vote of confidence also.Nice smile btw!!

Thanks for your post & visit,

Hugs,

D. XXX

"Always remember...keep smiling!"

Hugs,

D. XX


daighi 50M
1449 posts
8/12/2006 3:33 pm

    Quoting rm_esmeralda285:
    Don't worry about it. If people don't like what you write then they can leave. There would be always some whom like it.
I'm so glad that you like it enough to come back every now & then...

It's comforting to know that i have some regular visiters like you.It's much appreciated!

Thanks again,& hope to see you soo again.

Hugs,

D. XXXX

"Always remember...keep smiling!"

Hugs,

D. XX


daighi 50M
1449 posts
8/12/2006 3:37 pm

    Quoting MarcySullivan:
    I much prefer real life stories over fantasy!!

    xoxo
Me too Marcy,but when real life does'nt happen...fantasy is a good substitute!!!...so having an active imagination,CAN be a benefit to have!!..lol..

Thank you for your visits & your posts to my blog.I so enjoy reading yours,& i will continue to do so,if thats ok?..lol

Hugs,

D. XXX

"Always remember...keep smiling!"

Hugs,

D. XX


daighi 50M
1449 posts
8/12/2006 3:42 pm

    Quoting rm_goddess1946:
    Oh my... I can't wait to read it, D!!
    Kissssssssssssssssssss....my bedtime story...
    a real one ...sending you love and thanking you
    in advance for all energies put into writing it...

    going to read now {=}
Goddess,you know how much it means to me that you drop in every now & then to say hello.

If i can help with your bedtime happenings,than that just makes it all the more worthwhile!

I'm glad that you enjoyed it when you read it,& i hope that it had the desired effect???...lol..

You know that your always welcome!!!

Hugs & sensual kisses,

D. XXX

"Always remember...keep smiling!"

Hugs,

D. XX


MarcySullivan 53F
3598 posts
8/13/2006 1:24 am

    Quoting daighi:
    Me too Marcy,but when real life does'nt happen...fantasy is a good substitute!!!...so having an active imagination,CAN be a benefit to have!!..lol..

    Thank you for your visits & your posts to my blog.I so enjoy reading yours,& i will continue to do so,if thats ok?..lol

    Hugs,

    D. XXX
Of course it is.. feel free

xoxo


xoxo
Marcy

Visit my group Analsex lovers and my blog Marcy's world!!


Become a member to create a blog