I didn't disappear, really...  

czyswt1 39F
60 posts
7/17/2005 7:17 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

I didn't disappear, really...

I've just been a little busy. Yesterday was my birthday, so I was spending time with family and friends most of the day. I had a lot of fun yesterday. I did end up getting drunk for the first time. I don't think I'll do it again, anytime soon, but now I know what it feels like. I also know that I can hold my liquor.

Just out of curiousity, do guys or girls, actually READ a person's profile before they send them a message? I was just wondering because I always seem to get messages from people who are married, when I say on my profile I don't want to be with or talk to anyone that is married or separated.

I don't mean any disrespect, but you are married for a reason and are still in the relationship. I've met several guys in the process of a divorce and that's fine. But, if you are still going back to your wife, why the devil would you want to talk to me? I don't want to be in the middle of that triangle. That's just a big a** mess just waiting to happen.

Anyway, I'm going to get off my soapbox now. I just wanted to get that off my chest.

thicknshaved33 46M

7/25/2005 5:43 pm

As a guy, I have to say that I read the profiles. I may miss a few details, but I try to read it twice so I can see if I missed anything the 1st time. The pictures ARE important, but so is what a person likes. I don't think many guys read a woman's profile though. We are guys after all!

Pimp4aDayInSA 55M

7/29/2005 10:22 am

Happy Birthday! I'm new to AdultFriendFinder, as a standard member is there a way to view the entire profile? There is more to a woman than a picture. There is more to life than having sex (really). The way I see it, sex, though a big part of an itimate relationships, doesn't take up the majority of a couple's time. Therefore, it is very important to read these profiles...not just look at the picture and lust (though that can be fun too..lol).

rm_YoungGun2010 49M
3 posts
8/1/2005 1:03 am

Happy belated birthday to you! I believe Pimp4aDayInSA has found the answer to your question. I think you'd find most if not all the messages are from standard members. Personally, I would never send a message to someone without either reading the profile or thinking that we would be compatible.

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