SANCTUARY!  

cuteNEway 42F
1774 posts
8/13/2006 7:43 pm

Last Read:
8/17/2006 12:46 am

SANCTUARY!

This used to be my safe place. I remember feeling happy when I came to the blogs...

"Oh they don't have the chatroom drama in blogland."
No we don't. It's worse here.

"People of blogland are nicer."
No we aren't. We are as elitist and cliquey as the NYC high court!

At first yes it was nicer and drama free. But now all I see are accusations all over blogland. Founded or unfounded its tiresome.

I have even stopped reading my watched list. I no longer enjoy it here.

How much does THAT suck?



KittyOKane 46F

8/13/2006 7:57 pm

It's not all drama. You should probably just change your watched list. I take people off my list when they start a bunch of drama with other bloggers.


countryheart_71 46F
8081 posts
8/13/2006 8:38 pm

I do the same as Kitty does. There's always new ones created every day. I enjoy checking those out.

~Country~


NickRules999 40M
9464 posts
8/13/2006 9:11 pm

I think it was worse when there were guys out starting shit, and many of the bloggers were putting up lists on who to avoid. Even reprinting emails that were sent to one person that were horrible. But the assholes then reported everyone and the profiles of decent people were suspended. It took Princess Karma a month to get her profile back. The lists have stopped. I'm not sure how peacful it is, though.

Come into my realm! You aren't afraid...are you?


budandsissie 46M/46F
37 posts
8/13/2006 10:13 pm

There's a New Sheriff in Town!
budandsissie


Sweetpickles69 48F

8/14/2006 6:53 am

I try not to read the "haters". I hope you keep reading my stuff! I try to keep an upbeat, peaceful blog! Hang in there! There's still alot of great bloggers here, you just have to look!

Peace & Blog On,
Pickles

Peace,
Pickles


MissAnnThrope 57F
11488 posts
8/14/2006 8:02 am

    Quoting rm_fotogod:
    I've been having a ball!
    You just gotta get into it.
    Come on babe!!
I have to agree with foto. It's been great fun to watch the blogs this weekend.

But cute, why do you say elitist and cliquey like it's a bad thing?


woofff 42F

8/14/2006 9:34 am

Hey we haven't yet met except in passing perhaps. Am Woofff,I've been
getting to know you bit by bit thru' your posts. Are expressive like
most good writers.

You've gone thru the whole song and dance offline with men,sex,love,
-and their counterparts no doubt so you'll agree its as bad or good
in here as out there really....apart from the fact that the AdultFriendFinder draws
in people from all over the globe, its essentially only a start up point.

Perhaps you're evolving....and the things,people and issues that meant anything of value to you,are also evolving. Between one growth into another, I imagine there must be some dead air, some feeling of
being suspended...

Its a good sign, I'de say. Am happy for you . Come visit sometime hm?
xx,
Woofff


readytolay_3
(What the fuck is this shit..?? *rolls eyes*)
106F

8/14/2006 4:38 pm

I agree with Ya but fuck it don't let other bloggers get you down just start checking out other blogs. I have and in doing so brought the fun back to it....Ready and that hand full of Vicodin didn't hurt any either

Ready


cuteNEway 42F

8/14/2006 6:53 pm

Kitty...I know it isn't. But it's all around! I've discovered some nice positive blogs today so I feel better!

Foto...I can't enjoy it. It's annoying. I'm not in High School anymore.

Country...I'm discovering new ones! Puttin ya on my list too

Nicky...If you have nothing to blog about what do you do? NOTHING...I used to copy/paste stuff but it's not me so I stopped.

Budandsissie...don't fuckin make me do a Bob Marley, this blog ain't big enough for the both of us so GIT!

MzHuny...I miss the fun. The silly blog games and all that jazz...

Spunky...that's what I've been doing

SweetP...I always leave your blog with a smile Hey Bring back the NB&HG stories!!

MissAnn...you know I love your sense of humor but I find no fun in all this And elitist and cliquey is bad when good blogs get overlooked because a popular blogger looks better that a blogger that actually has something to say.

Woofff...you must be reading my mind from across the world woman!!

Dys...This has always been a shit free zone. The only time there was shit here was before I banned Div's wannabe smart ass. (tee hee)

Ready...got any percocet?

Looking...what pic? the post pic or my main pic? If it's the main pic I call it my Mona Lisa


strongelk2006 54M

8/15/2006 7:49 pm

I have to agree with some of these people here in blogland are getting rude. This is a place that I can tell some funny, and real stories. I try to make others laugh,,,to give them a smile,,and now ask for one back. I hope teach you how I write this code to make this writing.

Peace,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,Coolness...................N.B.


Peace,,,,,,,,Coolness..........N.B.


TheCliticals 36F/F

8/15/2006 11:31 pm

I am sincerely sorry that you feel this way. It should all pass soon.


rm_Benkai7 56M
2358 posts
8/16/2006 3:28 am

Dear "cuteNEway".

All is about your way, your personal way ... your experiences on your way ...

Might be a good idea to quote your chosen quote:

The Way of a Warrior is based on humanity, love, and sincerity; the heart of martial valor is true bravery, wisdom, love, and friendship. Emphasis on the physical aspects of warriorship is futile, for the power of the body is always limited.
"Ueshiba Morihei, The Art Of Peace"

Benkai7 - just my opinion & experience ...


cuteNEway 42F

8/16/2006 7:18 am

Nekkid Boy...one good thing that has come out of this: I discovered your blog YAY!

Cliticals...I hope soon

Benkau...you are right


CARGO52 65M
128 posts
8/16/2006 7:19 am

I AGREE THE BLOG'S HAVE CHANGED A LOT . WHEN THE GROUP I BELONG TO GET TO FAR OFF TRACK I FIND A NEW CIRCLE OF FRIENDS, I'M OUT TO HAVE FUN AND RELAXING POST , NOT DRAMA WE GET ENOUGH OF THAT ON THE STREETS OF NEW YORK EVERYDAY.....CARGO

Cargo 52


rm_YGB_fran 34F
1434 posts
8/16/2006 6:54 pm

I enjoy the blogs a lot, I have my favourites that I gog to and post and have fun. The more upbeat the better! Hope you find more blogs that give you a smile.

YGB_fran muuaah muuaah


AtomicArtist0 46M
6015 posts
8/16/2006 11:37 pm

yes. it sucks. as i was on your watched list. Am I still?


cuteNEway 42F

8/17/2006 12:46 am

Cargo...I took a break from it for a couple of days. I got back on track with my watched list. I just ignore the shit about the drama.

YGB...I have added some new ones to my list. Happier ones

Atomic...honey of course you're still on my list. we had this conversation already. You know I adore you and I will keep reading you!


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